ashleigh422 Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Blah blah met a guy a year ago.. online dating.. kept in contact bc i got back with ex.. Met him.. date.. slept together twice.. Tonight I post on his FB account.. "Cant wait to see your sexy arss tonight" HE DELETES "Okay.. or not.. " DELETED. THEN.. pm.. please don't post messsages like that.. I like to keep my private life private.. Then some pms about us and how i like him.. he's comin over tonight.. (works 2nd shift off at 11) He told me along time ago he uses FB to make people laugh.. me i use FB to keep my friends'fam updated on my life.. including romantic.. IS THIS Typical from a guy.. to keep it private.. or is this player screaming.. I don't care either way.. im gonna F him.. but I;ll check feelings at the door if this is a booty call.... by which he will drive 45 mintus to get... WHAT IS UP???
Lucky_One Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 I'm a girl, and IF I had a FB account, I would't post my personal life details on it. I wouldn't like it at all if everyone and their Aunt Fanny knew that I was getting ready to get laid in 2 hours when my BF got off work.
CarrieT Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Sounds like a Player to me. You could always UnFriend him and tell him that you are only doing so -- not because you don't want to be friends -- but because you don't trust him to not post such things.
mogul Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 I like to keep my private life as well. It is perfectly normal. Maybe he is a professional and has business acquaintances on there and needs to keep a legit front. Or,maybe just doesn't want the world to know hes going to hook up tonight?
slownumbers81 Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Some people are just particular about their Facebook account and don't want certain things posted on it. Honestly, if someone posted "Cant wait to see your sexy arss tonight" I'd probably feel weird about it since my parents and coworkers are on it. Some people are just more private than others... so my conclusion is, no, I don't think it means he is a player.
Author ashleigh422 Posted October 22, 2009 Author Posted October 22, 2009 GOSH.. you guys never fail me... So either way... it comes down to if i trust him or not.. which I do.. sooo ... forget about it an f him and what not.. lol.. i been drinkin and normally am not so upfront on here.. but who cares.. the sex is amazing and i need not press for deetails.. just yet.. but a 45 minute drive.. gotta give some credit right?
Johnny M Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Blah blah met a guy a year ago.. online dating.. kept in contact bc i got back with ex.. Met him.. date.. slept together twice.. Tonight I post on his FB account.. "Cant wait to see your sexy arss tonight" HE DELETES "Okay.. or not.. " DELETED. THEN.. pm.. please don't post messsages like that.. I like to keep my private life private.. Then some pms about us and how i like him.. he's comin over tonight.. (works 2nd shift off at 11) He told me along time ago he uses FB to make people laugh.. me i use FB to keep my friends'fam updated on my life.. including romantic.. IS THIS Typical from a guy.. to keep it private.. or is this player screaming.. I don't care either way.. im gonna F him.. but I;ll check feelings at the door if this is a booty call.... by which he will drive 45 mintus to get... WHAT IS UP??? Yes, wanting to keep your private life off facebook is pretty normal (in fact, it's a very good idea). And it's somewhat ironic that you bring up the "player" word. I guess it doesn't dawn on you that YOU were acting like player by keeping the guy around for a year while going back to your ex. Or maybe you told your ex that you had a replacement waiting on standby in case the relationship goes south again?
Author ashleigh422 Posted October 25, 2009 Author Posted October 25, 2009 WELL.. JOHNNY.. I WAS ABUSED FOR 4 YEARS.. IN EVERYWAY POSSIBLE.. I WAS TRAPPED and became trapped again.. I didn't have a replacement. I had a friend who was there for me to encourage me no matter what my choice was.. he understood my going back becuase i had to due to my mindset and financial needs with my children.. I am sorry to be defensive but ive been throguh alot and i was never misleading to either one of them about what i intended to do. If I was a player.. I woudln'lt of stopped talking to the guy romantically when I went back with the ex.. he deos live 45 minutes away and it would have been relativly easy to play them both.. thanks for theinput though.
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