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How do you know when a girl is hinting for a date?


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When a girl keeps asking "what did u do last night" or "what are you doing tonight"? is it a hint for a date?

 

She always smiles at me. She called me her favorite member in gym ...perfect nose..big muscles...articulate...very funny.

 

Plus one day she touched my chest.. " she wanted to rub lint from sweater" on me

 

On sat nov 29...this girl said "you are so hilarious....and if someone ever kicked you in the ass i'd kick theirs seriously"

 

Sun 30...she ignored me...not even eye contact...she was talking to another girl, so I let them chat. On my way out, still no eye contact...but the girl she was talking to gave me a big smile...teeth and all..wtf?

 

I would like a woman's perspective on this

 

Your thoughts please...........

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Sure sounds like she was interested and hinting for a date. Maybe on that last day when you didn't respond she gave up. Next time you see her, if you are interested in her, why not ask her out?

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I doubt she lost interest. Some days people aren't as motivated to flirt and put themselves out there. She may have been talking to that other girl about you. It sounds to me like she is quite interested. Why don't you pick up on her cues and take your turn? She just want it to be a mutual interest, and figures if she's shown interest you will make some strides in that direction.

 

Just talk to her again. Be nice and real with her. I don't know how you carry on conversations with women, if you flirt or simply strike up a practical conversation, but just be natural and genuine no matter what you do.

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Actually for a month now...I have kissed her hand on my way out as well as stayed with her and chatted making her laugh and stuff. I think the hand kiss shows interest....but she might be wondering "what's with this ****ing guy"? Plus I wrote her some haiku's ( as a joke ) I may ask her this week to tag along ;)

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she may just be nosey

 

or she's interested in finding out what you normally do for fun w/your friends

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:bunny: Please I need a more in-depth analysis....a woman's opinion would be nice.
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I think that she is interested in you by what you've mentioned and I would say that she didn't look at you that day when you where walking out b/c she was talking about you to her friend and didn't dare look up at you in fear you'd see right through her.

 

Why don't you just try talking w/ her and flirting a little with her. She's obviously been flirting w/ you.

 

Have you seen her since?

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Hi all....Sunday Dec 7/03...I went to gym as usual and that f***ing **** semi-ignored me...that same girl was there chatting with her.

They were discussing a girl we all knew and she said " why did u date her"? plus I bs'ed her that I went to a club sat night...and she said "usually You don't go anywhere" she made very limited eye contact...although she was flicking her hair. I made a few cracks and made her laugh but I played it cool...she also invited me to join her with sushi but that other girl was gonna come to, so I said next time. I think she gets cold because of that girl.

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she also asked "who did you go with" refering to nightclub...thoughts please

 

She seeing if I went with a girl?

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she's messin w/ya, drop the girl go find a new one that can be a little less stressful. if she's making you that mad she can't be worth it, and if she does like you she'll come to you , dun't chase her around eh?

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Update....

 

I noticed some frigidity this sunday( dec 15 ) which led me to believe she may be losing interest...can a girl who's flirted for months and seemed like she had high interest suddenly lose it? she did ask me what I did Saturday night....I hacked her e-mail to see if she is chatting with another guy but no...just my e-mails were on her list. HMMM what's a guy to think...she playing games or getting frustrated that I am not a pussy drooling over her?

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you hacked her email????? :eek::eek::(

 

dude, i know you like her, and this is not a good thing to be doing to someone you like. it's a huge invasion of her privacy... i think you might be a bit over-involved here mentally - which is not going to help you get any women.

 

i think you might have to let this one go; and next time just ask the girl out right away.

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NO WAY! I think she still likes me...I gotta think how to phrase it.

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