golden700 Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 I have a question that I know to many will seem ridiculous. If you do find it ridiculous, then don't answer me please, I know the way you think already. I have been having dreams of my boyfriend cheating. I know that a lot of online places say that it simply means you're insecure about the relationship. But in the past in other relationships, it was confirmed that the guys were cheating in exactly the manner in which I dreamed. Down to the girls' descriptions and I never met the women. Now those guys eventually confessed or I found out some way, but they were also acting really suspicious and weird like lying and stuff, so I kinda knew already. But this guy I'm with seemed to be the real deal and honestly, I can't believe I'm having dreams about him. I've trusted him completely. Now the only dream that's been proven to me by others to mean a person is cheating is when I was watching the Tyra show and she had couples on where one partner had cheated. And a guy had a dream where his brother asked him "what's that?!" and pointed at his wife. She was hanging out with a guy with a baseball cap on at a bar. Later he confronted the wife. She confessed and couldn't believe that the description was so dead on b/c she'd been at the bar with a guy in the baseball cap the night before. The only dreams I had with my brother was my brother pointing out that my boyfriend was checking out other women. He said, "what's that?!" and another where my brother said that my boyfriend was just an idiot. Nothing saying he was specifically cheating though or talking to other women. The other dreams I've had, are ones when my boyfriend chose another woman over me at a bar and to cheat or have a relationship with and his friends knew. And the others were different women when he traveled for jobs where I saw him choose to be with them. In some dream books it says that if your mate elopes with another person it denotes their unfaithfulness, and in the past this has certainly been a true prophecy for me. But some places say that you're just insecure. But his behavior is so trustworthy that it's hard to believe my dreams. I mean I really have had no signs other than the dreams. So if anybody has had a dream where their partner chose to be with someone else over you, eloped, cheated on you physically or just chose a partner when you weren't around and you later found out that your dream was dead on, please say so. I'd like to have other experiences like this rather than my own personal experience and the one brother dream before I say anything to him.
Skump Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Now those guys eventually confessed or I found out some way, but they were also acting really suspicious and weird like lying and stuff, so I kinda knew already. But this guy I'm with seemed to be the real deal and honestly, I can't believe I'm having dreams about him. I've trusted him completely. You experienced a series of coincidences. You're now making a prediction from those coincidences. This is a human thing to do. Everyone (everyone) does it, at least occasionally. It's still invalid reasoning. Think of it this way: There are about seven billion people in the world - seven billion. Let that number really sink in. Think of all the crazy combinations of coincidences, accidents, weird chance happenings, etc. that are going to appear in a population of that size. From the perspective of a person who's had dreams like yours, it might seem impossible to imagine being a victim of pure chance. You say to yourself, "what are the odds of this being dumb luck, one in a million?" But even if the odds were one in a million, there would be nearly seven thousand people with experiences just like yours.
bravesgirl Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Don't make him pay for faults in previous relationships. Don't be suspicious until there is suspicious activity... As for the Tyra Banks show... That's where you went wrong... shame on you!!! haha
HaveYouEver Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 I've had dreams like this - sometimes it was true, sometimes not. The important thing to remember, is we all dream of the things we're afraid of - but that doesn't make it true.
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