Ilovecake Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 and he's being really nice about it. He was posting (on another message board) about some major problems he is having and I had some information I could give him that would help. His life has really fallen apart since the breakup and I was actually vengefully happy (I know that’s just evil) about it for a while because I figured it to be a karma thing but things are just getting terribly hard for the guy and his life has really gone to the dogs. None of his problems have anything to do with me but I had the info he needed and without it he would have done something extremely stupid. Today I just felt sorry for him so to save him some major trouble I sent him a message telling him how to take care of the problem he's having. I was very business like about it and brought up absolutely nothing personal. I actually feel like the bigger person by doing that and he's the one getting all emotional about the whole thing. Heh!
Thebob Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 Well if he broke up with you, then I wouldn't have done it because he needs to realize what caused this downward rollercoaster in his life. NC is meant to be NC, and I think deep down you think about him so you wanted to find a way to contact him. I understand what ya did, but I think you shoulda kept it NC, just my opinion. Don't have to agree with it. Thebob
Author Ilovecake Posted October 21, 2009 Author Posted October 21, 2009 I agree, I know I was in the wrong completely. Not that I need to make excuses but it's been a year and I thought by doing the cool thing I could show him that I don’t care either way just using ‘my powers for good’. He did write back being extremely thankful and asking how I am. I’m not writing him back. I'm kind of enjoying the power rush at the moment while kicking myself in the butt at the same time.
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