Babygirl8385 Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 Ok, basically the story is as follows, i can honestly admit im an insecure and jealous female ... Not to the points where i cant control myself, but i am overall. anyways my husband and I went to best buy, he was returning 2 games he had bought, but i stayed in the car. Best buy boring .. lol anyways he came out and we talked about how dumb the bimbos were that worked there etc ... he said i was a distraction when im in there with him ... not sure how to take that one yet, but he proceeded to say that if i was there he couldnt use his story ... he didnt use the story anyways but he told me the story, and even though he didnt actually use this *story* he told me what he would of said, which was that he had gotten the games from his girlfriend, me, but im not his girlfriend im his wife, and he wears a wedding band, so whats racing thru my mind is did he remove his band when he got into best buy? it just drives me nuts, and i just want to know how to approach talking to him about this, i mean he never used the story, and eventhough he didnt it still upsets me, and im not sure why ?? please help me
2sure Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 It wasnt true , it never happened, and he never said it.
lonelyandfrustrated Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 How old is he? A MAN would never discuss 'bimbos' or schemes involving an imaginary girlfriend with his wife. If you're worried about what he's doing in there, then get off your lazy, bored butt and go in with him next time! As far as how to handle this worry you have, what's wrong with saying, "Honey, I'm a bit unsettled about the story you told this afternoon. First, I'm offended that you would think it okay to downgrade me to 'girlfriend', for any reason. Second, that you would try to convince someone that you HAD a girlfriend while you're wearing a wedding band concerns me. Do you take it off?" If he tries to throw it back to you that you're jealous, just firmly say, "No, I'm your wife, and what you said hurt me."
lonelyandfrustrated Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 It wasnt true , it never happened, and he never said it. He said it to his wife! Makes me think he's trying to play head games with her.
TaraMaiden Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 Hi, I'm an assistant at best buy, god this job is the pits, we get loads of guys coming in and blaming their kids, wives, MIL's girlfriends, mothers for buying stuff they didn't really want because they look like total dorks admitting they have gross taste in stuff, and it's better to make someone else look to blame than them, and girlfriends don't know you as well as a wife does, i mean, a wife knows what her husband likes, right, but a GF it's all still guesswork, so it's easier to blame a GF for being wrong than a wife because it sounds more credible, and no, half of them forget to take their rings off anyhow, so we know they're liars, because they're just trying to cover up the fact they're an idiot like we give a sh1*t.. ....is what I would say if I really did work at best buy and you asked me.
65tr6 Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 i dont understand. why make up a story when you want to return something ? I will give your husband the benefit of the doubt...he probably needed something, he cooked one up and in the process may have had to take the wedding ring off...(dont know that for sure, right ?) I just dont understand why he had to make up a story though (looks like he did ?). Just go there and say "I want to return this product" and show the receipt. If they ask "why" (dont know why they would) say "changed my mind". Those people at the desk dont give a c*. Part of their job is to provide customer service which includes gracefully accepting returns. Now if the package was ripped open or if the receipt was lost, then that is a different story. lol. I believe you are over analysing this particular incident. There is something else bigger bothering you ?
The Midnight Rider Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 Ok, basically the story is as follows, i can honestly admit im an insecure and jealous female ... Not to the points where i cant control myself, but i am overall. anyways my husband and I went to best buy, he was returning 2 games he had bought, but i stayed in the car. Best buy boring .. lol anyways he came out and we talked about how dumb the bimbos were that worked there etc ... he said i was a distraction when im in there with him ... not sure how to take that one yet, but he proceeded to say that if i was there he couldnt use his story ... he didnt use the story anyways but he told me the story, and even though he didnt actually use this *story* he told me what he would of said, which was that he had gotten the games from his girlfriend, me, but im not his girlfriend im his wife, and he wears a wedding band, so whats racing thru my mind is did he remove his band when he got into best buy? it just drives me nuts, and i just want to know how to approach talking to him about this, i mean he never used the story, and eventhough he didnt it still upsets me, and im not sure why ?? please help me Your husband is a dumbass. Let it go and get on with your marriage.
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