oilergirl Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and everything has gone great. We get along amazingly. We have so much in common. He is easy to talk to and he is truthful with me and i am truthful with him. He is my best friend and i have never fallen in love with someone so quickly. We have both had previous relationships and have discussed those with each other. I have had 6 relationships only 2 of which were serious. He has had 5 serious relationships and the last 4 his girlfriend has cheated on him. He is constantly worried about me cheating on him, and has dreams about it from time to time. I have never cheated in my life and find it horrible just to think about it. I come from a background where that is just not acceptable. My question/ concern is how can i ease his mind? I know he will not just drop it and i know that it will always be in the back of his mind i just would like to ease the worry that he has about this subject.
New Again Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 You haven't done anything wrong, so quite frankly, there is nothing you can do differently, except to tell your bf to get off your case. He shouldn't be punishing you for the misdeeds of others.
TaraMaiden Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 Tell him you'll cheat when he does. He will probably be horrified at the suggestion, so tell him you are equally horrified that he should believe or fear such a thing from you. Then let your actions speak louder than your words. Never, ever give him cause to doubt you, and don't cheat. EVEN if he does.
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