brock9911 Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 i need a swift kick in the ass...i'v done so well over the past few months since me and my ex split up...we started talking here and there. one conversation about hows life leads to how you doing and have you seen this or that ect. low and behold she asks me if i wanted to go see paranormal activity becasue she was scared to see it and no one would go with her...i originally agreed saying that this isnt a rekindling or to make a new relationship...just a friendship thing. in the back of my mind im thinking with the other head not the one on my shoulders about what could be, and than i started to think, and doubt, and worry. all over again. i quickly texted her back saying i think its a bad idea...to many mixed feelings will get stirred up... my mind is absolutely all over the place
Ilovecake Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 if it helps I heard "paranormal activity" isn't really all that scary.
MrFun Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 Doesn't sound like you have too many options. Go out and find ten other women that want to see it with you and see if you really care to see it with her. I'd leave it if I was you...
Lamak Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 Problem is you started talking to her again. You have feelings for her deep down. If you go out with her, you'll just be angry.
Author brock9911 Posted October 22, 2009 Author Posted October 22, 2009 yeah im glad i said no...it just sucks cuz talking to her felt like old times when things were good...no animosity in the conversation. just talking like regular people minus the attitude and arguments...we talked about halloween and our plans for that. than thats when she put out the question of weather i wanted to see the movie with her...she said strictly as friends, but i know i have feelings for her and it just wont feel right
jlr Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 I know how you feel. I'm in a similar situation. We've started talking here and there. I DID meet up with her (as "friends"), at a coffee shop. I still have mixed feelings about it.
NopeNah Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 I tried it with my ex 3 times..yes 3! Over the summer into the fall. It was always the same old stuff. Nothing had changed on her part and I couldn't get over the cheating/lies. She's now back with her rebound going to dinner and dating type things. She called me last night to "talk about us". Too bad for her I was half a bottle deep in a Patron bottle..needless to say the conversation didn't fair well for her. I got some things off my chest and wished her the best in her fairy tale world... Better to start fresh with someone new!
Author brock9911 Posted October 23, 2009 Author Posted October 23, 2009 haha patron...im a jameson man myself...thats the mic in me. but yeah talking to her was like a blast from the past. she was open and nice. like the girl i had fell in love with years ago. we talked about our halloween costumes and our personal lives. me being the territorial douche i am, i had to pry and see if she was seeing anyone or if she had seen or slept with anyone. she said no to both, but who knows if she was just saying that to keep me from getting pissed. even after i turned down the movie offer, she was still nice and we continued to talk civily. i figured she would be discouraged, but she still seemed fine. she ensured that it was stricktly a friendship thing. but im just not ready to put myself through that kind of mind game. im finaly feeling a bit better about myself, and personally i wanted to say yes because i know it would have lead to sex....but that wouldnt help my anxiety or feelings either
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