jessicasilver Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 i really need some advice. my ex boyfriend dumped me twice about months ago but we remained friends throughout! it hasnt always been the easiest thing but i managed to deal with it and i feel like i have let go of the past although i still do love him! his always the one who initiates the contact and tells me he misses me etc. he called me yesterday and asked me how i was and what i got up to... i didnt tell him and he asked me what im hiding?! (its really none of his business)! anyway, he was being really sweet and he said he wanted to ask me someting but he couldnt over the phone so he texted it to me...''do u still love me?'' i was gobsmacked. i demanded him to answer me first and he said he did so i told him that i do too (wish i didnt ) ! why do you think he asked me ? what difference would it make to him whether or not i love him still if he dumped me and no longer wants to be with me... he now wants what he cant have
alphamale Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 this is just attention-seeking behaviour on his part. disregard it and disregard him
Author jessicasilver Posted October 21, 2009 Author Posted October 21, 2009 thats exactly what i thought, i havent been giving him the satisfaction of thinking i still care for him since the break up. i stopped contacting him so any contact we had is because he texted or called me which is like everyday! i stopped calling him ''baby and hunny'' etc but he still does it! i just dont understand why he gets the satisfaction out of me still loving him if he doesnt care anymore!
GrayClouds Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 this is just attention-seeking behaviour on his part. disregard it and disregard him Advice like that is why he is alphmale
Author jessicasilver Posted October 21, 2009 Author Posted October 21, 2009 so i made a big mistake by telling him that i still loved him too
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