j11181 Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 My fiance's Ex girlfriend is friends with My fiance's Grandmother on Facebook...that's not the problem. The problem is WE(my fiance and I) have had issues with this girl during our relationship. Issues involving her calling too much and being a bit needy of his attention. AND I also had an issue with him saying something inappropriate towards her as well. We did a LOT of work on our relationship to get past this...and I think we are, BUT now I keep seeing conversations between the EX and his Grandma pop up on facebook. I am friends with the Grandma as well...and she doesn't send me messages at all. And just recently(not sure if the EX or the Grandma did this) one of them posted 3 of the EX's pictures up on the Grandma's page. So the first thing you see when you go to my fiance's Grandma's page is three big pics of his old girlfriend. Am I crazy or is this weird???? And what should I do about it...if anything?
Author j11181 Posted October 21, 2009 Author Posted October 21, 2009 just testing ...I am new at this
2sure Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 Clearly you cannot throw Gramma under the bus. Its irritating to you. Rightfully so. But these things happen all the time with in laws. This is a great example and opportunity for you and your bf to be united and decide together: To do nothing. To say nothing. To never again look at Gramma's FB. If this woman is brought up in conversation by G or anyone ...your BF is to be the one to say: This woman has made an effort to add drama and interfere in our relationship. We do not want to engage her in anyway and would prefer that you didnt either. If you feel you are friends with her...lets agree to disagree and just never mention her. Gramma will get bored with her. Or decide she would prefer the attention of family members. Its hard. Its called grace.
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