EmptyPromises Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 if you are familiar with my story it has been a rollercoaster the entire year and half of mine and my ex's relationship. we broke up in may. got back together for a little bit, then broke up in the beginning of september. he came back a couple of weeks later, wanting a relationship. he told me in the time we were broken up that he had had sex with one girl. this devastated me. but i was willing to forgive him. a week and a half ago a friend of mine tells me of this other girl. turns out he got her pregnant. sure, it was when we were broken up, but he hid that from me. ive been upset about that for the last week. last week, i wrote him a letter saying how much i loved him, how bad he hurt me etc. i was feeling really low and rejected. i went to the bar. i hooked up with a kid that i have hooked up with before. we just made out. it was awesome, i had such a good time and we talked for awhile at the end of the night. however, i was really drunk, got home and had a letter in my inbox from him in reply to the letter i had sent him. my letter was a good two paragraphs. his was 2 sentences. i stupidly and drunkenly sent him a message telling him about this new guy and the fabulous night i had. i regretted sending him the message in the morning but there was nothing i could do about it. my ex called me all day, really upset about the whole thing. that night i went out again, the two guys were at the same place. this new guy was trying to hold my hand around the bar, wanting to talk etc. i didnt hook up with him because i didnt want to do that in front of my ex . just felt it was wrong. on friday night my ex came over before i went out and basically begged me back. the new guy kept texting me, but my ex kept taking my phone and responding stupid things back to the new guy. my ex and i spent the weekend together, he kept telling me he wanted to be with me, etc. the new guy keeps texting me& i havent really responded.im so confused. seems like a really nice guy but at the same time i want my ex. i feel like hes just wanting me back because another guy wants me. and now whenever we do hangout, or talk, this new guy is always brought up. do i just get rid of my ex once and for all?
northstar1 Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 What do you want? Sounds to me that neither of you can really get past the mistakes you have both made. I'd say you need to forget your ex- too much drama
Angel1111 Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 He lied to you about something that was very significant. I would've broken up with him for that alone. He can't be trusted.
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