jungle1 Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 hi, my girlfriend broke up with me nearly 2 months ago now, we was together for 4 years. the first couple of weeks i was a wreck, then i thought i had to pull myself together. i stopped contacting her and thought that was the only way to get her to miss me. it worked cause less than a month later she text me saying she wanted to see me. we went out saturday just gone and then she came round the next day and we ended up having a quick lunch. we text for a while shortly after both our meetings which was nice and pleasant, nothing to heavy or emotional. i thought i was fine....until i met her. now i cannot stop thinking about her and all i want to do is tell her i miss her. i dont know if she is gonna text/ring me again to meet up and its driving me crazy. shall i tell her how i feel? she has initiated all the contact so far. any advice please?
Logik Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 Keep letting her initiate contact. Don't tell her how you feel unless she asks.
NopeNah Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 Keep letting her initiate contact. Don't tell her how you feel unless she asks. This! Don't put your heart/feelings out there too soon or she'll just take them for granted again. Also, I suggest not making yourself too available to her. Be "busy" sometimes when she wants to hang out. It's no game but, she left you. You shouldn't be setting around waiting at her beckon call.
ATR Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 Sounds to me like she's stringing you along, waiting for a new guy to come along while your still biting the bait. Go NC straight away, if she wants you back she'll beg at your door to get you back, atm she's just how she likes it. Getting emotional attention from you (like you were a couple) and she's single at the same time. However, i doubt you're going to listen to the advice so am i wasting my brea... finger tips.
Metal_Muffin Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 It's hard...if i was you i would want to be the same and jus dive in and tell my ex i miss him etc. I think your best keeping some of you close to you..just incase, dont forget how hurt you felt at the start. I honestly believe if its meant to be it will and you know...ex's make mistakes...it happens and things can get better but im not saying this is the same. Just keep yourself slightly guarded and take things at a pace you can control.
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