gypsi Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 Please give me some really good reason's why i shouldnt send her a message i am caving in after seeing her!! About to send her a message i miss her to much f$^$ dont understand why i am so weak!
logitech Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 Just don't do it!! I was feeling weak today too. I nearly checked out her Facebook pic and in the past if I thought about it I would. Somehow today I found the strength not to... so far. The idea keeps following my but I keep pushing it away. It's just not worth it. Find something else to do. Call someone else. Talk to someone. Anything but that. We can all be strong together.
Limbo21 Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 Wish I had some words of encouragement but I feel the same ... I won't contact her as I've already gone down that route, I won't even check my emails just in case it's further rejection but I feel utterly worthless & she was the best thing that ever happened to me. Damn it! I've forgotten what it feels like to be normal
GrayClouds Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 Please give me some really good reason's why i shouldnt send her a message i am caving in after seeing her!! About to send her a message i miss her to much f$^$ dont understand why i am so weak! Your not weak, it is a difficult thing your experiencing. Right now the emotions are in charge but you can not give into them. Sending her the massage will get one of three responses: 1. No response which will hurt even more, to open your self up and to be ignored is not something you want. 2. She will respond with saying she feels the same and wants to comeback, but if she felt that way she would have already told you, so this is not going to happen. 3. The most likely scenario; she read it and see you as weak or pathitic, and will irritate her, it will push her even father way and make you feel even more rejected. Be kind to yourself, and do not contact her.
Author gypsi Posted October 21, 2009 Author Posted October 21, 2009 Thanks for the advice, i didnt message her...i did however go and check her facebook profile ouch! Greycloud you are spot on with your last bit of advice she will thik i am weak and pathetic and this will DEF. push her further away so i wont message il just move on like i have been doing for 7 months now and live with this pain till maybe one day in 3 years if im lucky it will leave me alone! Goodluck to the rest of you guys it really does help so much knowing that there are other people on here going through the exact same thing.
GrayClouds Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 Give up the facebook thing, No Contact means no contact. Going there is just picking the scab. Just like sending the massage any contact you have will return those some three responses but with the final one being internalize; it will make you feel weak. Be strong do not do that to yourself. Start working out and try something new, that will remind you how strong you are.
Thebob Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 what's the story behind it? I have no idea what to say if I don't know what happened........ if she broke up with you, NC it until you are healed man, go run a marathon if you have the need to text her or call her. If you broke up with her, NC it because you broke up with her for a reason, You cant fall in to the trap you need to stay strong and move on. NC NC NC Thebob
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