ianwallis Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 Me and my current girlfriend were mates for ages before we hooked up. we both have reputations as players but when we got together we swore to turn our backs on our old ways. i thought i knew her but 2 months in she cheated on me. basically they did everything but full sex. just a kiss and i'd have easily let it go but they were VERY intimate. It hurt because we were so close as friends and i thought celibacy was what we both wanted when we got together. its now been 9months and i love her but should i trust her if shes already cheated on me. in her defence when she did it when the relationship was only 2months in and now she says she loves me unconditionally. she says she had no idea how much she could love me when it happened but i cant seem to get over it. Do you think its coz pretty much all my exes have cheated on me? i do get jealous but i dont act like it and she goes to bars with her friends arond twice a week. i really want to trust her because we're growing as a couple each day but that indescretion early on still bothers me. I think i can trust her but there are times when i feel like throwing it back in her face but i know that wouldnt help. its tearing me up as now im edging towards walking away from her, even though i could be in love with this girl.Am i being paranoid or will she always be a cheater?
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