daphne Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 I had a momentary lapse of sanity and considered taking back my serial cheater ex, who professed that he had changed, was willing to do whatever it took (passwords, texts etc) to regain my trust. However, he was still a liar and still chasing strange. This is what helped me realize the signs of the lying cheat, for when you don't want to believe them. http://hot995.kaneshow.com/cc-common/podcast/single_podcast.html?podcast=kane_roses.xml&_show Link to post Share on other sites
samsungxoxo Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 No I would not. No point if there's no trust no more... Link to post Share on other sites
Javelin Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 Cheaters are not relationship material! After the damage that they've caused, why would you want to take one back? Link to post Share on other sites
Zoff Posted October 21, 2009 Share Posted October 21, 2009 Never. To me it seems to be pretty much the ultimate betrayal of trust in a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
boldjack Posted October 21, 2009 Share Posted October 21, 2009 Never, ever. Link to post Share on other sites
Devil Inside Posted October 21, 2009 Share Posted October 21, 2009 Probably not....unless you are ok with them cheating on you again. Link to post Share on other sites
MarkTwain86 Posted October 21, 2009 Share Posted October 21, 2009 I did took her back. Only now I have become the cheater. She doesn't know it though. Link to post Share on other sites
mark982 Posted October 22, 2009 Share Posted October 22, 2009 took her back,she cheated again. i'll never subject myself to that misery again. Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey Shortie Posted October 24, 2009 Share Posted October 24, 2009 Key word here is "serial" cheater. No, you should not take back someone that repeatidly cheated on you. Maybe they are different now, it's a slim but possible chance. But they disrepected you repeatidly. Now if someone cheated once, and how they proceeded after that, that is something I think might be able to be salvaged. With ALOT of hard work. Link to post Share on other sites
trueblue72ny Posted October 24, 2009 Share Posted October 24, 2009 i agree with the other posters. it is hard enough to get over the trust issues associated with being cheated on once, let alone multiple times. i think you are trying to fool yourself into believing he has changed. but inside i think you already know the truth. a tiger cant change his stripes. if you are cool with him banging other chicks, than go for it. if not, move on and find someone else you can have a trusting relationship with. just my two cents. Link to post Share on other sites
rose333 Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 Even if he never cheats on you again, you will still know that he cheated before. A one time mistake can be worked through, but several times makes it more deliberate and less of a mistake, which makes it hurt more and take longer to get over. If you were to get back together with this guy, you would always be paranoid that he would be cheating on you, and that would destroy any chance of the two of you creating trust and a strong, close relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
tryagaintoday Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 serial, no. 1 time, depends. Link to post Share on other sites
Author daphne Posted October 28, 2009 Author Share Posted October 28, 2009 I don't think people read my post. I had already decided not to take him back, and realized that people like that don't change no matter what lies they offer to the contrary. The link was for people to listen to cheaters getting caught in the act. It helps the person being cheated on to recognize the myriad lying techniques a cheater uses. Most of the time it consists of turning it around on the person being cheated on. Sometimes they profess that the other person showed them how much the cheated on person meant to them and that itw as a good thing. Occasionally, it's hysterical. But it's very educational. Link to post Share on other sites
bubuvietnam Posted October 30, 2009 Share Posted October 30, 2009 When trust has gone, the relationship should be ended. I will never take a cheater back, bc I know he will cheat again for SURE. Link to post Share on other sites
phineas Posted October 30, 2009 Share Posted October 30, 2009 took her back,she cheated again. i'll never subject myself to that misery again. Same here with the same guy. Link to post Share on other sites
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