zerolxx Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 So me (age 20) and my bestfriend (age 18) started dating 7 months ago. we where sooooo good or so i thought. we where getting to the piont in the relationship where things start bugging each other. its normal at least thats what people are telling me. she dumped me outa the blue right there. she told me its cause i dident understander her and that i was not the one she was going to marry. the marrage thing really bothers her cause her parents are getting divorsed right now. this made me crazy because the hole relation ship she was like a open book till she stared college. then i started seeing the signs. she was being distant. after we broke up. i pulled the nc thing. that lasted about 4 days when it really started to hit me. after that i started being a mess texting her, facebooking,and calling. she came to get her things and we sat down and talked. she started telling me it was also cause im 20 and not in any school just working. btw shes graduated 2 in her class. also she wanted to be singal for college. what really blew my mind is when i asked her if she still loved me... she said yes but shes not going to marry me and wants to find the "one". shes really being nice about it tho. not at all mean and letting me cry and talking to me. even if its not what i wanna hear. when she left i thought we where going to get back together i really did i was so happy the next day i talked to here and well the answer was no. she doent think it woud be the same and alot of people like my mom and dad and her mom are upset with her because she broke it off with me. heres the problem idk what to do. i really want her back cause ive never meet anyone like her before and i was sooo happy but shes my best friend and just wants to stay best friends. if i persue her she might endup hating me like some of my other exs. also idk if i can be friend as much as i dont wanna lose her. seeing her with another man would drive me up the walls! what should i do 1. try and get back with her? and risk our friendship 2. just be friends and try to not punch out other men she starts seeing 3. or the one i really really dont wanna do stop talking to here forever plz help me i cant sleep or eat im freaking out that i might loses my girlfriend and or my bestfriend.
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