brockreiman Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 (edited) when I was 17 a junior in high school the begging of the year i meant this girl who was completely amazing. She was 15 and a freshman. We dated for 2 years straight, although it was a little rough at first because i was afraid to let someone into my life we hit it off good. We spent countless hours together I went on vacation with her family and we talked on the phone each night. When school started for her junior year she broke up with me saying she needed to find out what life was like without me. I begged and pleaded for her to come back and cried i even thought about ending my life. however during this period of time she would randomly call me and ask me random questions like "would you build me a white house with blue shutters" and we even hung out a few times. I didn't go to college I stayed around home and i have a good job as i work for my father in the family business. I found a new girl during the time of the break up and when she caught word of it she was very sad and upset and decided she wanted me back. So i told the girl at the time i would always love my ex and i had to go. We only were together for maybe a month and it wasn't a big deal. Now me and my ex are back together and we dated for 6 months until recently she told me we had to break up. Because she needs to figure out her life before she brings someone else into it. So this time i didn't cry or throw a fit i said fine and we didn't talk for a month and she sends me a message and ask me what my problem is and why wont i talk to her. So i say ok and we talk every so ofter via txt and she called a few times and we didn't talk for a week and then i asked her what was up she said she can't talk to me any more cuz she doesn't want it to seem like she wants to date me. So i'm very depressed the love of my life is gone again she wont even talk to me. She is group dating with friends and i just don't understand how she can completely forget me and forget about everything juts like that. We had a great relationship i became very close to her family and her i cannot go on like this and i'm affraid to let go. I don't ever see my self caring about someone else as much as i ever cared about her. we were both the first for each other to go all the way and other things. Edited October 20, 2009 by brockreiman need to add more I left stuff out
Lamak Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 To hell with that girl, she's just playing you. You started dating her when she was a freshman in high school. She obviously only wants you in her life when she feels like it and that's a big no no. Go NC on her and meet some mature college women. If you connect the dots, you'll see she doesn't deserve you.
muse08 Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 i'm female yet i halfway agree with the previous comment. she isn't being fair by toying with your emotions.if she stayed away and didn't keep contacting you then i would say maybe she's sincere. but she's coming in and out of your life...for no clear reason...? now,are you sure you're telling the complete truth? you didn't do ANYTHING to make her upset with you or disappointed? are you sure she's behaving this way for no reason???
Author brockreiman Posted October 22, 2009 Author Posted October 22, 2009 yea i did 100% nothing wrong and everything was going very good. I just had a very serious shoulder surgery that she went to with me she was with my the whole time from going under to waking up. She helped me take care of my self her whole family got me cards and candy and stuff and then a few weeks later she calls me over and tells me shes is immature and sorry and all this bs. then i go NC on her ass and she txts me that she misses talking to me and she is mad i don't try to talk to her. Then i talk to her every so often and then she said we can't talk any more cuz its over. She is very confused. I don't know what to do. she is very important to me and the thing is we share so many memories and times together that i can't just replace her with just any one.
GrayClouds Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 she is very important to me and the thing is we share so many memories and times together that i can't just replace her with just any one. no you can but you can find someone else to have new memories and good times, but more importantly treat you with respect.
Author brockreiman Posted October 22, 2009 Author Posted October 22, 2009 we did so much stuff together..vacations..concerts..late nights..how can she forget all about this and it keeps playing over and over in my head?
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