singlelife Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 Ok guys here it goes. I hear guys say women are selfish. They call when they want and don't return your calls. They set dates and just don't call or show. The take guys for granted. If a girl did that to me I would just move on to the next one no time for such drama and be all upset. So my question is do girls do this stuff on purpose or are they just living their life.
BookerT Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 3 reasons women do this: 1) They're not interested 2) They're attractive and have a lot of guys chasing so not easily moved by a normal guy chasing. 3) They've read "The Rules" or "Why men love bitches" or equally BS play games books and following some rigid rule of playing hard to get. The third type are the worst because they can't even think for themselves. But in general, attractive people tend to be worse partners because they have choice.
boogieboy Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 They do it because men let them. Men who have choices do it as well. Have you never read the threads of women who get shyt on as well? Its pretty 50/50.
Trialbyfire Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 They do it because men let them. Men who have choices do it as well. Have you never read the threads of women who get shyt on as well? Its pretty 50/50.I've met some selfish people in both genders, at any attractive level. Ultimately, it makes them unattractive.
Johnny M Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 They do it because men let them. Men who have choices do it as well. That's pretty much spot on.
BookerT Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 I've met some selfish people in both genders, at any attractive level. Ultimately, it makes them unattractive. Ultimately.........for those that spot the behaviors and have the strength to move on. Many people cling on for dear life to bitches and jerks.
Trialbyfire Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 Ultimately.........for those that spot the behaviors and have the strength to move on. Many people cling on for dear life to bitches and jerks.That's their choice, lives and ultimately, their problem. If someone isn't treating you right, then walk on by or else you're saying to the nasty person, it's okay to treat me this way, since I'll be there to take it. Abuse me some more.
BookerT Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 That's their choice, lives and ultimately, their problem. If someone isn't treating you right, then walk on by or else you're saying to the nasty person, it's okay to treat me this way, since I'll be there to take it. Abuse me some more. I agree with you completely. I'm just saying many people are not strong enough to see that. Also the bad behavior is not ultimately unattractive to many, for many ironically it acts like a magnet.
D-Lish Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 Ok guys here it goes. I hear guys say women are selfish. People are selfish, it's not just women. 3) They've read "The Rules" or "Why men love bitches" or equally BS play games books and following some rigid rule of playing hard to get. The third type are the worst because they can't even think for themselves. But in general, attractive people tend to be worse partners because they have choice. "The Rules" are antiquated notions derived from the "Leave it to Beaver" Nation. The gist still stands though- if a guy isn't good enough, cut him loose. To be fair, men should follow the same advice. If women couldn't think for themselves wouldn't they actually fall for someone less than they deserve because they don't know any better? Who is attractive, and who is not, is relative. (not "a" relative- but relative....just to clarify")
BookerT Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 The gist still stands though- if a guy isn't good enough, cut him loose. You got that part right. Everything else about the rules is rigid and clear manipulation. The rules is the female version of pick up artist rules. Rigid, manipulative, and over the long term guaranteed to ironically NOT get someone into a healthy relationship that lasts. Both authors of the rules are now divorced. Great proof of how effective the rules really are.......
D-Lish Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 You got that part right. Everything else about the rules is rigid and clear manipulation. The rules is the female version of pick up artist rules. Rigid, manipulative, and over the long term guaranteed to ironically NOT get someone into a healthy relationship that lasts. Both authors of the rules are now divorced. Great proof of how effective the rules really are....... However, the foundation of both those books suggest, "respect yourself"....Nothing off about that- it's actually good advice.
carhill Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 OP, the women you described in your OP are selfish, egotistical and self-involved. What is that, like a tiny subset of a tiny minority of female-kind around the globe? Think about that. Smile at them with the knowledge that you don't have to live their karma Oh, I forgot the why.....here it comes...I don't care
BookerT Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 However, the foundation of both those books suggest, "respect yourself"....Nothing off about that- it's actually good advice. Respect yourself and playing games are different. I can respect myself without playing games. Once someone uses manipulative techniques they're the jerk themselves, and still a reflection of their insecure selves. Also they can kiss long term happiness goodbye. The Rules, and PUA material are good for seduction, terrible for keeping a healthy relationship going.
ForRealLoveMe Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 Selfish people can be either gender. Any type of looks. Any age. Anyone.
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