My second chance!! DON'T WANT TO MESS IT UP!!!

[jnetters]

I was dating this guy for about 4 months. He was dating me and another girl at the same time. He later dumped me for her... saying that I used to party too much and that I should stop doing that. He said he liked me a lot, but he couldn't be with somebody that partied so much. I couldn't take him seriously because he was dating that other girl. I found out I had fallen in love with him after we broke up. Its been 6 months since we broke up and we have been trying to speak to one another and become friends. He says he can only see me as a friend, but I don't believe him. He gives me looks and tries hugging me at the clubs. He has been having problems with his other girl and his father has been telling me that he has feelings for me and really loves me, but I need to quit partying so much. This is my second chance and I really don't want to mess it up. He has invited to go out with him as "friends"... I really love him and I just don't want to mess up our date. Should I just be his friend or should I try making up with him again?? I know he still has feelings for me because he can't stand seeing me dancing at the nightclubs. I'm really not trying to make him jealous... I just either wanted to move on. But now I have my second chance... so please help. Should I become his buddy or what do I do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!