Lishy Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Hey guys I am needing some advice again lol OK so I met this guy 2 Saturdays ago and we had a real laugh all night and as I was going we had a kiss and swapped numbers. To be honest I didnt think much of it as he is younger than me and seriously good looking and that is not what I go for in the norm. Anyway he text me in the week and I was shocked to be honest but we agreed to meet up on Saturday as we would both be out with friends. We met up and it was the weirdest thing and I feel so corny saying this but as our eyes met it was like electric and I know he felt it too because we just stuck together all night even though we both had friends out. So anyway at the end of the night he came back to mine with me and my friend. I never invite guys back to my place so this again was out of character for me, I told him no sex (and stuck to it) but I just didnt want to leave him at the time Anyway we cuddle and kissed all night and it was wonderful, I jept waking up all night and he would have his arms wrapped around me and holding my hands and then I would fall back off and wake up and I would be snuggled into him and at one point we were talking and laughing and he was stroking my face - I feel warm just thinking about it and I want to see him again desperately We got up in the morning and my friend was up and we all sat in the living room watching X factor and he had a coffee. As he left we went to the door and he gave me a quick kiss on the lips but didnt mention calling me I didnt mention it either as I know one thing in life and that is that if a man is interested you will know about it The thing is that he left yesterday morning and nothing, no call, no text no nothing and I really want to see him again!!!!! No one can tell me what will happen I guess I just wanted to vent off. I never get like this anymore, I am so blaise about men now I never let it bother me but this one is so damn lovely! ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
EcstasyX6 Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Hard to say. Just try to be patient. Maybe he's waiting for you to call or text as well and feeling the same way. Try not to stress too much. If by day 2 or 3 you haven't heard anything, then he's probably not as interested as you thought.
lab_brat Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Well, as he texted you to catch up on the saturday, i think it might be your turn to text him???? How about just something really casual like 'hey, i had fun on saturday, have a great week!'. It leaves the lines open if he wants to catch up again, but its not like you're on the floor drooling for it.
SoulSearch_CO Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Cute! I hope it works out for you, Lishy. I wonder if he's not texting because he doesn't want to appear too eager. Who knows. I say give it another day or two. It's been less than 24 hours since he left when you posted this, no? LOL
Author Lishy Posted October 19, 2009 Author Posted October 19, 2009 Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh I am so not patient! I know that if he does not call HIS LOSS, I know that if he is not interested then fine by me and I also know that what will be will be BUT I really liked this one and that does not normally happen to me!! Seriously it is so easy to meet guys but so hard for me to meet one I really like! When my text or phone goes I am jumping and I HATE feeling this way! I really hate it! Oh and I defo will not contact him first! No way in a million years
Odyssey Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 When my text or phone goes I am jumping... lol. STOP IT. calm down, you're getting too worked up! Try to keep yourself busy girl, so you're mind isn't on him every five minutes. By the way congrats. on this man...definitely sounds good.
Claire001 Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Your rite no one can tell you what to do and i know you said you know men but if i were you i'd hold tuff and DO NOT RING, TEXT OR CALL. Let him contact you now and try not to think about it too much i know its easier said than done but it will be worth it in the long run. Best of luck.
Author Lishy Posted October 19, 2009 Author Posted October 19, 2009 I am not thinking about him constantly, I am really busy but when my text goes my stomach flips! Its horrible! Arghhhhh I hate this feeling lol
Awesome Username Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Hey guys I am needing some advice again lol OK so I met this guy 2 Saturdays ago and we had a real laugh all night and as I was going we had a kiss and swapped numbers. To be honest I didnt think much of it as he is younger than me and seriously good looking and that is not what I go for in the norm. Anyway he text me in the week and I was shocked to be honest but we agreed to meet up on Saturday as we would both be out with friends. We met up and it was the weirdest thing and I feel so corny saying this but as our eyes met it was like electric and I know he felt it too because we just stuck together all night even though we both had friends out. So anyway at the end of the night he came back to mine with me and my friend. I never invite guys back to my place so this again was out of character for me, I told him no sex (and stuck to it) but I just didnt want to leave him at the time Anyway we cuddle and kissed all night and it was wonderful, I jept waking up all night and he would have his arms wrapped around me and holding my hands and then I would fall back off and wake up and I would be snuggled into him and at one point we were talking and laughing and he was stroking my face - I feel warm just thinking about it and I want to see him again desperately We got up in the morning and my friend was up and we all sat in the living room watching X factor and he had a coffee. As he left we went to the door and he gave me a quick kiss on the lips but didnt mention calling me I didnt mention it either as I know one thing in life and that is that if a man is interested you will know about it The thing is that he left yesterday morning and nothing, no call, no text no nothing and I really want to see him again!!!!! No one can tell me what will happen I guess I just wanted to vent off. I never get like this anymore, I am so blaise about men now I never let it bother me but this one is so damn lovely! ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH You have done all of the right things to have a man call you back. Whatever you do, don't contact him first and it should take him about a week. If he doesn't call I'll just assume he's banging some dude somewhere. Be patient!
alphamale Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Lishy, from the info given i cannot say whether he will call or not. and whats up with all the cuddling and stuff? is this your way of telling him that he'll eventually hit the jackpot if he sticks around?
Author Lishy Posted October 19, 2009 Author Posted October 19, 2009 No Alpha I just love a cuddle ... and yes he would hit the jackpot if he stuck around I had to force myself not to lol
Awesome Username Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Lishy, from the info given i cannot say whether he will call or not. and whats up with all the cuddling and stuff? is this your way of telling him that he'll eventually hit the jackpot if he sticks around? What, you don't cuddle?
Johnny M Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Well, as he texted you to catch up on the saturday, i think it might be your turn to text him???? +1. You don't know what he's thinking - perhaps he somehow concluded that you're not interested....if you don't hear from him within a couple of days, text him yourself. What have you got to lose?
Author Lishy Posted October 19, 2009 Author Posted October 19, 2009 If he is interested I will know! I defo will not be contacting him first
Johnny M Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Oh and I defo will not contact him first! No way in a million years Why not???
alphamale Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 What, you don't cuddle? Alpha's cuddle after sex indeed carhill, indeed
Author Lishy Posted October 19, 2009 Author Posted October 19, 2009 Why not??? answered by .... First person who talks loses Anytime I have ever made first contact I lose and I always remember that men like the chase indeed carhill, indeed
Awesome Username Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 answered by .... Anytime I have ever made first contact I lose and I always remember that men like the chase Lishy knows what's up
Johnny M Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Anytime I have ever made first contact I lose and I always remember that men like the chase Don't be ridiculous. Should every guy who gets rejected when approaching a girl conclude that women prefer to chase men? The whole "men like the chase" stereotype is just a stupid rationalization that some women use to justify their own passivity (the kind of women who usually end up in unhappy marriages with someone they had to settle for because the knight in shining armor never made his triumphant entrance into their lives). The fact that you "lost" every time you made first contact means only one thing: the men you contacted weren't interested in you to begin with. And they would have never contacted you first if you waited, I can assure you of that. People who are proactive get further in life than people who are passive. That's a fact. And it works this way in personal life just like it does in business and politics. Being passive is the surest way to losing...bigtime.
Author Lishy Posted October 19, 2009 Author Posted October 19, 2009 Don't be ridiculous. Should every guy who gets rejected when approaching a girl conclude that women prefer to chase men? The whole "men like the chase" stereotype is just a stupid rationalization that some women use to justify their own passivity (the kind of women who usually end up in unhappy marriages with someone they had to settle for because the knight in shining armor never made his triumphant entrance into their lives). The fact that you "lost" every time you made first contact means only one thing: the men you contacted weren't interested in you to begin with. And they would have never contacted you first if you waited, I can assure you of that. People who are proactive get further in life than people who are passive. That's a fact. And it works this way in personal life just like it does in business and politics. Being passive is the surest way to losing...bigtime. Note the bolded part .... My sentiments exactly! I am not chasing a man and you will not convince me to. Passive I may be, desperate I am not!
Johnny M Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Note the bolded part .... My sentiments exactly! I am not chasing a man and you will not convince me to. Passive I may be, desperate I am not! I don't know about that....jumping up every time you hear the phone ring hoping it's "that guy" sounds pretty desperate to me.
Author Lishy Posted October 19, 2009 Author Posted October 19, 2009 I don't know about that....jumping up every time you hear the phone ring hoping it's "that guy" sounds pretty desperate to me. and that above reply helps me how? Is it your aim to just have a go at me because I remind you of all the girls who have rejected you? It is not my fault you are bitter JM so scuttle off somewhere else with your whiney, self absorbed comments .... ta!
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