EricaH329 Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 let me sum up: me: 32 I'm not sure I get the problem??
CandyGirlXO Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 I know! I will be 27 soon, and sometimes I can't believe it! :lmao:
Author picklesnrootbeer Posted October 19, 2009 Author Posted October 19, 2009 sorry, my browser crashed, leaving me empty handed. i'm 32, and a bartender at a popular nightclub. i recentlly started spanking it with one of the dj's...honestly, people think i'm beautiful, but also tough and somewhat intimidating. so, as in this case, when a guy just hauls off and plants one on me, i know they're not afraid of me!!! which is what he did.... so, come to find out he's under house arrest, and wears an ankle monitor. i work very close to where we work, so the gps would never really know...and he's only under house arrest on a technicality, no weapons or violence were involved in his transactions. i do not fear him! but, he just told me "as soon as this thing comes off, i'm outta here...., fiji, california, the frech riviera...." so no what? under normal circumstances, i would just cut him off completely. but i'm recently on the rebound, and vulnerable, and falling for him, and i work with him..... whatdoido?????
Awesome Username Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Let the ankle monitor criminal mastermind escape to the French Riviera alone. Guys shouldn't be talking about how they're going to leave you before you're even together. He doesn't deserve your lips any more.
Author picklesnrootbeer Posted October 19, 2009 Author Posted October 19, 2009 so maybe i left out that in 16 years in the american workforce, i have never EVER dated a colleague before? i'm not quite sure i know how to disentangle myself professionally, let alone emotionally! how does one disengage gracefully, and with dignity?
Awesome Username Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Explain to him that since he's talking about taking off after the ankle monitor is off, you don't want to be emotionally involved (aka you're not going to sleep with him). Then say you want to remain friends, and that he's a cool person and under other circumstances it could have worked. That's the classiest way to do it. But keep in mind that even though this might be a cool guy, he certainly wasn't trying to impress you with his story so don't feel like you have to let him off easy if he keeps pushing you. <3 He basically told you that he wants no strings attached, and if you're already falling for him then there are already strings there. If you're going to rebound, you might as well do it with someone who treats you well so it might be worthwhile in the future.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 To me the fact hes even got a criminal background would be a turn off then add on hes talking about taking off to some far off place suggests maybe his past is more of an issue then he cares to deal with. My advice stop seeing him and move on find a nice stable man your prob not going to do that at a bar/club tho jmo on that one.
SoulSearch_CO Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Um. You've only kissed once and you already have feelings so deep you're not sure if you can disentangle from the record-spinning-thug that you're using as a rebound? I'm just wondering if I read that right.
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