imadeangirl Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 I was married to my husband for 6 years in LA and i have 4 kids (ages 6,4,3, and 1) We got divorced 2 years ago because of his infidelity with a former coworker of mine. I have since moved to Manhattan because of my job and he has moved to Vancouver because of his job. Over the past couple years our children have stayed with him for one to two weeks and with me three weeks. Recently, work has brought him to New York and we have been spending much more time together, so our kids could have us all together. Ever since i left him he has been telling me how much he loves me and how much i mean to him and how much he wants me back. I will always love him as well because he is the father of my children. I have tried to date and have had a coule steady relationships in the past two years but it always ended because thier love just wasnt enough. Now that im with my ex husband more i can see that he really has changed and isn't just saying so. From the way he takes his call, or adresses people, or handles situations. We have decided together to give it another shot and we have been taking it slow and just going out on dates for the past few weeks and we started getting physical about a couple weeks ago. Now i am not sure what to do next in our relationship. Should we move in together? Should we get remarried? We have both gotten past the things that have happened and fallen back in love... but what do we do next?
Lucky_One Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Why not just date for a year or so? Why the speed to full commitment? Which one of you is so afraid of the other finding out "the truth" that they have to have a legal tie-down to keep you?
mark982 Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 why not just slow down,and enjoy things? get to know each other all over again,also will give you time to make sure he's really changed for the better.
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