tVII Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 had my first gf a year ago (oct.) and we lasted 6 months. she is a co-worker so dealing with my first break up and still seeing her SUCKED. however after a hard 4 months, i started to come around. everything was going GREAT. i was at ease we were over. i was happy again! then i find out she has a new bf. now its like back to square one. i guess i never really got over her cuz i definitely feel that im going to be down longer than a month or more. so my question is: is this normal? has this ever happened to anyone were to start feeling better and life has reached a normalcy againt then all of a sudden a relapse? and any advice. please.
Art_Critic Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Of course the feeling is normal.. nobody wants to be the last one to move on after a breakup, but it really doesn't mean anything bad.. Sure the feeling sucks... but keep your head up.. The key is that you should be out there dating others.. She is part of your past not your future.. so go out there and make your future happen with someone else..
SaraMcCoy Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Yes it's normal! Go out and get yourself a rebound girl! It will definitely cure your woes Go on a couple of dates and I guarantee you won't remember "ole what's her name" haha.
tinktronik Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Of course the feeling is normal.. nobody wants to be the last one to move on after a breakup, but it really doesn't mean anything bad.. Sure the feeling sucks... but keep your head up.. The key is that you should be out there dating others.. She is part of your past not your future.. so go out there and make your future happen with someone else.. very good advice.
Author tVII Posted October 19, 2009 Author Posted October 19, 2009 thnx. everyone is right. school tommorow im going to try to make moves. sux since ive never been good with girls (girls are attracted to me but i get nervous) but i guess ill use this time to improve this... thank you everyone and ill probably be back with more problems...cuz i know there will be more in this run and id rather not bottle it up this time around... and im new to this talking feelings as well...
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