Kitten.Pie Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 This guy I really like has a girlfriend, who just happens to be my friend. Last month he broke up with her and me and him had a little thing for about a month. A couple weeks ago they got back together. I let him go, since they were together a long time so i thought it was great they had a second chance. It seemed like it was going well, until last night... He came over to my house with a couple friends and we all got pretty drunk. He ended up staying over night... We fooled around, coming very close to having sex, but didn't. Today we got up and hung out until about three in the afternoon, then he went home. We didn't talk about what happened. I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should just pretend it never happened, write it off as a dumb drunken night.... Or talk to him about it and see what's up, or...? He cheated with me, and I think he girlfriend, my friend, should know... I don't want to be the one to tell her, though. Please help!
TheLoneSock Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 They were broken up when you were with him for a month, so that's not cheating. Lame yes, but not cheating. About the drunken night, that is cheating. If you did everything but sex, and everything can be a lot, it's a form of intimacy. Also, you keep calling this other girl your friend, she's not. She's not your friend, because you don't do that to someone who is. As for you, it will probably be easiest for you to write it off as a drunken night and chalk it up to experience, and NEVER let it happen again. Let the girl find out on her own, stop ****ing around with the guy, and stop calling her your friend- because you're not.
imagine Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 What he is doing is called "Cake eating" Very nice for him since he now has two options. Go NC with the dude. He is not a worthwhile target. You may want to tell her of your intermission relationship with him. He will continue to get you attention if they come around as friends.
Dexter Morgan Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 He cheated with me, and I think he girlfriend, my friend, should know i agree......so she can dump him......AND you as a friend.
harmfulsweetz Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 Is it just me or do you not even go near your friends exes? sorry, but out of respect for my friend, I would never go near their castaways. You clearly aren't a good friend, or you would think twice before doing anything. Tell her, let her ditch you and him.
Javelin Posted October 20, 2009 Posted October 20, 2009 Please help! If you were in her shoes, and she messed around with your boyfriend. Would you want her to tell you or write it off as a, 'drunk night?'
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