NoneoftheAbove Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 Hello again folks, i woke up today feeling great. I don't have that feeling anymore, where i felt like my heart has been under tons of weight. It's been more than two weeks since i heard from her, all this time i took the time work on myself. Mean time, I want to thank you all for helping out. Knowing that, people don't even know me was taking their time to help me out instead of the one whom i thought would be there. Thank you guys My question is.. Why do we have to suffer? is it our fate? or is it just not meant to be? I just dont understand, when you give everything to the person you love and you get nothing in return. I've walked through the gates of hell for this person, all this time i was blinded by love that i couldn't see how much i was getting hurt. Now that it's over, im really happy that i ended it what a shame. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me...
Lamak Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 Losing someone you love is hard, no matter how the person treats you. As long as you love them, it'll hurt regardless of how many horrid things they do to you. The thing you have to understand is that they don't love you, so why should you waste your time loving them? You also have to realize that the word "love" is misused very often, so maybe they didn't know what they were saying. Learn from your mistakes and give your all to the next person that means alot to you in your life.
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted October 17, 2009 Author Posted October 17, 2009 Couldn't agree more. Thanks Lamak
Surfgal Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 (edited) Hello again folks, i woke up today feeling great. I don't have that feeling anymore, where i felt like my heart has been under tons of weight. It's been more than two weeks since i heard from her, all this time i took the time work on myself. Mean time, I want to thank you all for helping out. Knowing that, people don't even know me was taking their time to help me out instead of the one whom i thought would be there. Thank you guys My question is.. Why do we have to suffer? is it our fate? or is it just not meant to be? I just dont understand, when you give everything to the person you love and you get nothing in return. I've walked through the gates of hell for this person, all this time i was blinded by love that i couldn't see how much i was getting hurt. Now that it's over, im really happy that i ended it what a shame. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me... Hey there, I am such a believer of karma. I believe we suffer due from causes we had made in the past. I don't think we purposely choose to suffer. Somehow as much as I don't want to believe it, I believe that the people who are in our lives, the good and the bad, are just the physical manifestations of what we feel inside. I mean when I look at my suffering today, I can see literally may the cause has come from. I therefore to lessen it's retributiion, I come to places like here and help those who are suffering. I dont believe we purposely be punished but I think alot of our past has to do with it. Hugz Kelli Edited October 19, 2009 by Surfgal grammar
brokenandalone Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 I try to answer this question every 5 seconds. Why do people treat the ones who do the most for them like ****? Why do people lie....I just don't get it..
Surfgal Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 (edited) I try to answer this question every 5 seconds. Why do people treat the ones who do the most for them like ****? Why do people lie....I just don't get it.. It's because that is who they are and represent. They are showing us their true natures. It's up to us if we want to let them continue the abuse. It's ultimately our choice Unfortunately our good and honest natures, keep taking it. Edited October 19, 2009 by Surfgal grammar
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