TwilightSky Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 I won't lie, I don't think that'll help. Bascically, I have no confidence with women. Well, okay, it was getting a little better recently, then I started to regress. How do I increase my confidence? Attractive girls will start friendly conversations with me, and it is hard for me to respond naturally. And I have no idea where I fall on the attractivess meter, unsolicited comments made me feel momentarily good, then my confidence went back down again. Anyway, how do I combat this?
Pedigree Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 If you're not already doing it, go the gym and regularly exercising helps. Makes you look good and feel good. After that it's all in your head.
Author TwilightSky Posted October 18, 2009 Author Posted October 18, 2009 If you're not already doing it, go the gym and regularly exercising helps. Makes you look good and feel good. After that it's all in your head. Good advice. Any other tips?
Pedigree Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 (edited) I'm still doing these things myself so the best I can't testify definitively of these thing's success: 1. Think about aunts, extended families you don't see often, parents' friends, and parents' co-workers. If throughout your life, you get a consistently good comment about the way you look ("Oh such a handsome boy, etc.) from people like these, start believing in it. Even if you don't look like Brad Pitt, you probably have enough good looks to warrant such a comment. 2. If you see a female friend and she doesn't see you, go up to her and start a conversation. Just helps you get used to the feeling of going up and talking to a girl. Edited October 18, 2009 by Pedigree
Author TwilightSky Posted October 18, 2009 Author Posted October 18, 2009 1: I have had that happen, I probably should start believing in it. 2: While I know I should do this, it is hard for me. I guess I feel "unworthy" or something.
Recommended Posts