xpaperxcutx Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 Approaching two years with a few flings in between. P.S. are you sad btw?
AvaSylvian Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 A month. I want to stay single for at least a year. I've been jumping from relationship to relationship. Now, I need some time for me.
LucreziaBorgia Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 A couple of years, though technically I guess I could say three. The last year of my last relationship, my boyfriend moved away and cheated on me. That whole last year was me desperately trying to keep us together when it was clear that it was ending. We had sex maybe twice, three times that last year and it was horrible. I've only been with one person since then, and that was a painfully empty FWB thing that should have never happened. I plan to stay single for a long while, until I get my head and heart straight and ready for the real deal.
Pyro Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 Since mid May. I was sad at first and tried way too hard to meet someone to fill the void, which I didn't realize until I scared them away. I finally caught on and now I am perfectly happy with the way things are. I am in no rush to be in a relationship again. I go out and do my thing and don't even worry about it. Its going to take someone very special to catch my eye. I will not settle for anyone less.
youngandhopeful Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 Almost 2 years for me. Ive enjoyed my time alone, but now i am ready for a relationship. Flings are not for me.
Author on_point Posted October 17, 2009 Author Posted October 17, 2009 Approaching two years with a few flings in between. P.S. are you sad btw? I'm not sad.. (I do get lonely on occasion), I think I'm interested in others status to see that I'm not the only one who doesn't rush into relationships. That I'm also not the only one who's taking the time to acquire a deep sense of self before accepting/inviting someone else into my life.
EarthGirl Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 27 years, 7 months and a couple weeks...possibly forever..don't know if I ever had anybody before that. ha ha, I win. two thumbs up for me
Tayla Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 WOW, loaded question in a sense. If you arent married then you are considered single, yet you could be single and in a relationship. (still single since no legal docs or ceremony has been preformed) Or you could be single meaning abstinent or just haven't committed to a relationship. Sorry that question just isn't quite specific enough to know which way the question is posed. Primarily I have been legally single since the age of 27. So 20 years later, I am still single, and loving life to the fullest!!! My singlehood is filled with dates and wonderful friendships (both platonic male and female) so I havent the time to label myself single so much as a person who is independent and filled with many good blessings. Loneliness can transpire inside a marraige so what is the difference? At least when single you can manage, married and lonely is a troublesome place to be.
baker23 Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Well, I'm currently in a relationship, but before this relationship and for most of my 20's, I was single for 7 years. After I finished a long term relationship, I was so hurt I didn't want to drag anyone into it with me. After I felt I had healed, I didn't want to date anyone just because I was lonely. Just like a previous poster said, I didn't want to settle for less than what I wanted. There were times I felt lonely; especially since during that period, two of my closest friends met and married their husbands, but I didn't want to be with someone just because I wanted to be in a realtionship. I waited, and I met a guy who was worth the wait. If I had to go back; I would do it again.
Lizzie60 Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 I've been single for about 2 years. I have been single for 7 years now... and enjoying every single minute...
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