PQ13 Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 How to do you make yourself look less available but available? I know good looking people can have their pick so any tricks to look more appealing? Why do you want to make yourself look less available? Do you think that looking less available makes you more desirable? This is really stupid strategy, especially if you're going after the "hot guy", keep in mind that "hot guys" are aware that they are "hot", and they tend to have more experience with women than an average dude... If you try play this "hard to get" game, he is not going to bother with you, unless you look like Miss World. You should do the opposite, make yourself look approachable (available) and be classy.
Johnny M Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Why do you want to make yourself look less available? Do you think that looking less available makes you more desirable? This is really stupid strategy, especially if you're going after the "hot guy", keep in mind that "hot guys" are aware that they are "hot", and they tend to have more experience with women than an average dude... If you try play this "hard to get" game, he is not going to bother with you, unless you look like Miss World. You should do the opposite, make yourself look approachable (available) and be classy. +1. Playing hard to get is a bad idea in general. The only men you're going to attract with that approach are guys who enjoy the chase....and guess who those guys are? They are players who see you as a conquest/challenge and they'll quickly move on to their next target once they get what they wanted.
Awesome Username Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 You say you want chivalry.... I just want a superhero. Preferably Iron Man.
justforfun Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 I just want a superhero. Preferably Iron Man. Have you noticed the advert on the right for POF? You should read it...all the way to the end...:laugh:
justforfun Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 I just want a superhero. Preferably Iron Man. Forum post on dating website: Good question. People have asked me why I am still single at my age and with my looks, simple, I have had a hard life. I had the start of a medical problem at the age of 17 which got worse as time went on. (had nothing to do with illeagel drugs or alcahol) I had been taking medications which were like steriods meaning I had no interest in women.(plus I didn't get out much because I worked long hours on the farm and had nothing planned for the future)That has all changed now because my medical problem has been taken care of, I no longer take medication and I have an interest in women. I am slowly working on a project for something to do when I ever retire. That is also the reason I am looking for a specific kind of woman.Since my medical problem has been taken care of(10 years ago) I have dated 9 women(some 2 or 3 dates, others up to 1 year). 8 I turned down,1 turned me down because they weren't what I was looking for. I look for a specific woman because I hope to spend the rest of my life with her, doing what we both like to do. I have certain things I can change a little as long as she does also. And this is the lovely specimen...complete with looks!
justforfun Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 I just want a superhero. Preferably Iron Man. And you could be missing out on this one: "Sometimes parameters are put on us by outside forces. For me, a strict work rule interfers in my ability to meet many potential matches. I work for a large Psychiatric Hospital that mandates that employees can not date any current or former Patients to our facility. It seems like all those who I have recently connected with, end up having been Patients to this Facility. Which negates them, and me from ever meeting."
Awesome Username Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 Forum post on dating website: Good question. People have asked me why I am still single at my age and with my looks, simple, I have had a hard life. I had the start of a medical problem at the age of 17 which got worse as time went on. (had nothing to do with illeagel drugs or alcahol) I had been taking medications which were like steriods meaning I had no interest in women.(plus I didn't get out much because I worked long hours on the farm and had nothing planned for the future)That has all changed now because my medical problem has been taken care of, I no longer take medication and I have an interest in women. I am slowly working on a project for something to do when I ever retire. That is also the reason I am looking for a specific kind of woman.Since my medical problem has been taken care of(10 years ago) I have dated 9 women(some 2 or 3 dates, others up to 1 year). 8 I turned down,1 turned me down because they weren't what I was looking for. I look for a specific woman because I hope to spend the rest of my life with her, doing what we both like to do. I have certain things I can change a little as long as she does also. And this is the lovely specimen...complete with looks! Holy **** my dad has the same HAT AND SHIRT
You'reasian Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 I just want a superhero. Preferably Iron Man. How about an Iron Chef? I kid, I kid... What do you find attractive about the Iron Man?
Awesome Username Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 How about an Iron Chef? I kid, I kid... What do you find attractive about the Iron Man? Tony Stark is rich, brilliant, good looking, a leader, and the only superpower he has is his own human mind (I ignored the story in the comics that said that his mother was a biologist and he was born with extra robot neurons - lame). I kind of wish I could be Pepper Potts to a man like that, but he probably doesn't exist outside of a comic book. Except for the alcoholism, he's the full package. A girl can dream. Hahaha!
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