anderson80 Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 Since last-week when going to her office she is not wearing office dress but party ( and sexy) dress sometimes dress which i think is more appropriate for teenager. Also now she keep asking me to take her picture with those dress. How is the appropriate way to ask her about why she suddenly she changes her dress style when going to office? Thank-you
imagine Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 I like to speak straight to the point. Ask her if she loves you. Then ask her why! Do you meet her emotional needs. Clearly, wearing the dress does not meet yours. Share this concept with her. If your are genuinely concerned about you marriage -snoop. This is a spouses job. Protect your marriage, snooping is NOT a dirty deed.
Bobby2010 Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 It is a definitely a red flag. what does she wear on a daily basis around you?
seibert253 Posted October 19, 2009 Posted October 19, 2009 Really look deep. What else is she doing that makes you think something is amiss. Where there's smoke, there's fire. Tell her what your feeling, if there's nothing there, she'll put it to rest. If she gets angry and defensive, then dude, you've got problems. Time to go into investigative mode.
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