michelea1 Posted October 16, 2009 Posted October 16, 2009 Ok this guy wants are first meeting and date to be at a strip club. Should I go or is this weird for a first meet and first date. Do you think he is up to something?
Soul Bear Posted October 16, 2009 Posted October 16, 2009 Go for it. It's just another place to meet...I think. How do YOU feel about that, withouit thinking about what he is up possibly to?
EcstasyX6 Posted October 16, 2009 Posted October 16, 2009 No way. A Tacky first date IMO. Do you think he'll be looking into your eyes?
sumdude Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 Gimme a break. Fist date/meetup at a strip club? Beyond tacky.
Soul Bear Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 No way. A Tacky first date IMO. Do you think he'll be looking into your eyes? He might look into her eyes, and only her eyes...I mean you never right?
Soul Bear Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 What I'm interested in is what you guys have been discussing with each other to give him the impression that a strip club would be a suitable place...??? oops, last post is meant to say 'you never know'
Author michelea1 Posted October 17, 2009 Author Posted October 17, 2009 we didnt discuss anything sexual it was all his idea. I dont know I asked him to meet me on my side of town, but he said his friends are going to the strip club on his side of town and he wants to go there tonight and i can come if i like.
New Again Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 Personally, I would decline the invitation and tell him never to contact me again.
Soul Bear Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 ah ok... You can come if you want? That doesn't sound like a first date to me...he's making you an option. His friends and looking at other women are his priority.
Johnny M Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 I initially thought this post was a joke, but it seems that OP may be serious. So, let me posit this to you. Even if we assume that you are a thoroughly uninhibited and sexually liberated woman who would not feel the slight bit of discomfort accompanying a man she's never met before (as well as his friends) to a strip club on their first "date", don't you think it may be a bad idea for purely practical considerations? The purpose of the first date is to get to know each other, right? How do you expect to have a meaningful conversation with a guy who is.....well, distracted by various female body parts being shoved in is face??
D-Lish Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 For a first time meeting, the mere suggestion is ridiculous.
Sith Apprentice Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 I come home often reaking of boos and dirty strippers. I say go for it and be sure to give him a lap dance.
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