NoneoftheAbove Posted October 16, 2009 Posted October 16, 2009 (edited) Im sorry i didnt tell you i have my period,but there are certain things like that .. that IM not comftable sharing with anyone.Some dont mind telling it to the world , but some like myself ... do. i know that you guys know about pms & period & i also hope you guys know the effect that comes with it .. headache , stomach pain , migrain , some girls throw up .. some last for 3 days like me some a week.its a horrible thing.I hate it! but i felt comftable telling you mmy head hurts ( i dont feel good , because usualy when your head hurts you dont feel good ) you wanted me to go on cam , i did even if i didnt feel like it at all . i did because i thaught it would make you happy but it ended disaster.Another thing, yes ! my friends talk about their sex lives & i listen , theres nothing wrong with that if your friends talked to you about their experiences , you would just turn your back and walk away?i doubt it , you would sit/stand there and listen because their your friends about it, i seriously had nothing to do the day he talked to me about it , so i stood there listening. I dont remember what i told you about my friends sexlife but..meh.Whats with the threat " ill hurt you real bad " did you even think before writting that? I read that and i was amazed that the Emre i thaught i knew would say something like that to me.No matter how angry you are a threat isnt cool hun.I should learn to shut my mouth at times & should be more open about personal thingsbut im just not ready,but that doesnt mean i wont share anything with you.. ask me questions about me & ill answer.Might be a little to late for that but my point is just because i dont feel comftable telling you about my Period doesnt mean im not with other things.Their are a few things i need to be respected about too emre , when i tell you im not ready to talk to you about this .. yet, doesnt mean im never going to.Put everything in a blender & throw it in the garbage like nothing ever happend,just that you have someone on this side that still loves & cares alot about you. i hate having to end our relationship because of this.you told me - Nothing about me if different nor it would ever be.i for myself saw a pretty good change towards our relationship the way we communicate i txt you as much as i can at work call you on my breaks call you everynight before going to bed to say i love you goodnight.you cant tell me i will never change i know i will but if ur not willing to stand beside me and tell me we're in this together ......... then i dont need it no matter what we should be there for one another.See even after ur threat i would take you back anytime of the day.You did something wrong im willing to put it behind us & move on.But you knowing that wtv i said was because of angerd hormones youre putting everything in a blender and throwing it in the toilet flushing it & forgetting about it.I know i did something wrong,i just needed time to calm myself down & think about it.& again with the " i wish i never saw you ", why do you have to say hurtful things like that?In the txt you say " i gave you everything , what you gave me ... nothing " what was i suppose to give you emre ? i gave my love but it wasnt enough i guess. knowing that you have a girlfriend on this side struggling because she doesnt get to see her boyfriend or cant show him anyway that she loves him except for " i love you "'s.& i just listened to the last voicemail you left me " im not breaking up because of your period , im breaking up with with because of your bull****s " other then the period part ... what bull**** did i tell you last night?if youre Done ... then so am I.im not going to sit here thing either were going to get back or not , if it happens ..... it will , but you sound pretty convinced that we're not.& trust me every girl acts up durring their pms sessions,iff their the type that dont ...... then i Envy them. anyways Emre,you deleted me off - Msn , Phone , Facebook , Blackberry Messenger nothing left for you to do i guess -this is it ? if it is ... have a great life , lots of happiness & if im not the person you want to be with since you reaslised that today .... then i Hope you find someone who is. The funny part... I was always there for this so called girl.. always. she never said "i don't feel good she said my head hurts, shes making things up " i never turned her down never ever dont let what she says in here fool you. if you read my other posts than you ll understand me this is just the tiny bits.i just wanted to sahre with you guys and go from there. The reason i said " i ll hurt you because she was telling me mean stuff i wasnt like going to slap her or anything, i was going to hurt her with my words." Edited October 16, 2009 by NoneoftheAbove
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted October 17, 2009 Author Posted October 17, 2009 (edited) All i can say, this is pretty BULLSH***TTT. I cant stop laughing, pretty pathetic to be honest. Any comments? Opinions? Edited October 17, 2009 by NoneoftheAbove
boundaryproblem Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 1. It is all about her. Count the "I"'s. 2. Lots of words, little substance. When a woman is seriously panicking about a relationship she will speak very directly and very succinctly. Her talking about her period at this time is disrespectful to you. We all have 'off' days, but blaming her behaviour on her period it is like saying "I kissed him because I had one beer and didnt know what I was doing". She is tugging the fishing line out of boredom to see if you are still there. She hasn't hit the wall yet. (in my opinion) boundary problem
Art_Critic Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 Sounds to me like you eff'd up this relationship.. Live and learn...We learn from our mistakes.. Own yours.. she just owned hers.. Time to store it and go to the next one..this one is damaged beyond repair. By the way.. if you have threatened more women like that before then maybe you should look at what part in you does that.. it ain't cool.. and to the poster who said she disrespected you for talking about her period now.. hahaha That isn't disrespect..that was a woman explaining things from her point of view and when one does that you as a man should listen.. it may not change the outcome to listen but by not listening then you are disrespecting her.
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted October 18, 2009 Author Posted October 18, 2009 1. It is all about her. Count the "I"'s. 2. Lots of words, little substance. When a woman is seriously panicking about a relationship she will speak very directly and very succinctly. Her talking about her period at this time is disrespectful to you. We all have 'off' days, but blaming her behaviour on her period it is like saying "I kissed him because I had one beer and didnt know what I was doing". She is tugging the fishing line out of boredom to see if you are still there. She hasn't hit the wall yet. (in my opinion) boundary problem Thank you BP, I totally agree with you on this one. I also told her, maybe you had a bad day, maybe you had a fight at work, maybe you don't feel like talking to anyone. Do NOT reflect this on the relationship; it has always been about her if you read my other threads you will see. She'd always give me this silent treatment. I didn't take the bait this time, i was about to text her but i didn't and im glad i stopped myself.
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted October 18, 2009 Author Posted October 18, 2009 Sounds to me like you eff'd up this relationship.. Live and learn...We learn from our mistakes.. Own yours.. she just owned hers.. Time to store it and go to the next one..this one is damaged beyond repair. By the way.. if you have threatened more women like that before then maybe you should look at what part in you does that.. it ain't cool.. and to the poster who said she disrespected you for talking about her period now.. hahaha That isn't disrespect..that was a woman explaining things from her point of view and when one does that you as a man should listen.. it may not change the outcome to listen but by not listening then you are disrespecting her. I suggest you read other threads of mine, dont judge the book by its cover.
Art_Critic Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 I suggest you read other threads of mine, dont judge the book by its cover. I judged the book by the post you started this thread with. Nowhere did you mention to read any backstory or give any and a poster isn't expected to read all of your previous posts on LS to post a comment on a thread. Dude.. and you might want to reread my post.. there is some advice in there for you to consider..
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted October 18, 2009 Author Posted October 18, 2009 I judged the book by the post you started this thread with. Nowhere did you mention to read any backstory or give any and a poster isn't expected to read all of your previous posts on LS to post a comment on a thread. Dude.. and you might want to reread my post.. there is some advice in there for you to consider.. if you read my other posts than you ll understand me this is just the tiny bits.i just wanted to sahre with you guys and go from there. Perhaps, you need to read everything it says at the bottom and i posted it up there for you again. So please next time read before you post.
Art_Critic Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 So please next time read before you post. There won't be another time.. Take care
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted October 18, 2009 Author Posted October 18, 2009 There won't be another time.. Take care Im glad you realized your mistake. Have a good one
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted October 18, 2009 Author Posted October 18, 2009 I've never in my life hurt anyone. I will never hit woman, especially the one i love from the bottom of my heart. You obviously did NOT read the whole story, in her email she does NOT mention why i said " i ll hurt you" because she is two faced liar. She was telling me mean stuff over BlackBerry Messenger, so i said stop or i will hurt you. She is just trying to make herself come clean. Anyways you got the message.
NSW768 Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 When a woman is seriously panicking about a relationship she will speak very directly and very succinctly. i find this an interesting thought. care to evaluate at all?
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted October 18, 2009 Author Posted October 18, 2009 No woman no cry how are you NSW?
2sunny Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 Im glad you realized your mistake. Have a good one ummmm, you made a mistake... he's one of the best posters here... too bad for you. you missed a golden opportunity as he's not even around here very often anymore. hmmmm
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted October 18, 2009 Author Posted October 18, 2009 umm okay?> i dont care if hes best nor hes golden. Not in my eyes.
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted October 18, 2009 Author Posted October 18, 2009 I dont need anyone coming here and cussing me out.If you have your own issues than we can talk about it im already hurt dont press on my buttons. Sunny, have a good one.
Surfgal Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 I agree....no matter what we all hurt...and here for support, right?
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted October 18, 2009 Author Posted October 18, 2009 I agree....no matter what we all hurt...and here for support, right? You are right Surfgal.
Surfgal Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 You are right Surfgal. Totally....how r u doing? u hanging ok?
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted October 18, 2009 Author Posted October 18, 2009 Im doing just fine Surfgal, thank you. How about yourself?
Surfgal Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 Im doing just fine Surfgal, thank you. How about yourself? Aww you are so welcome. Glad you here you are doing fine. I am hanging in there considering today is 2 weeks But I wont lie, ups and downs. But I know this is life. I am in Vegas with family and friends just having fun....So how do u cope?
Author NoneoftheAbove Posted October 18, 2009 Author Posted October 18, 2009 Same here about 2 weeks or so. Good to hear that you are with your friends having fun soon it will be all over. Ahh im just here watching some movies, you know trying to pass the time boring stuff. I wish i could travel, i have school
Surfgal Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 Same here about 2 weeks or so. Good to hear that you are with your friends having fun soon it will be all over. Ahh im just here watching some movies, you know trying to pass the time boring stuff. I wish i could travel, i have school Awww that is tuff to travel when ur in school. It's so hard to even find things to do to pass the time. i just hate seeing those lil reminders but then i think y, i have a full life ahead of me. so what movie u watchin? ur up late. where u located?
Surfgal Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 Same here about 2 weeks or so. Good to hear that you are with your friends having fun soon it will be all over. Ahh im just here watching some movies, you know trying to pass the time boring stuff. I wish i could travel, i have school Awww that stinks you cant travel but school is impo. But yes its the small reminders that get you. You know seeing a car like his. But you know what, we both desrve better, right? So ur up late. Where r u? What movie you watching?
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