michelea1 Posted October 16, 2009 Posted October 16, 2009 This guy that has been using me for rides, my phone for his phone calls and sex called me today. I picked up the phone like a dummie. He asked me what was the grant books name that I had been reading. I gave him the name. He said that he would call back in couple of hours. I havent heard from him yet. It seems like he is just calling to get info for himself. I wanted to tell him that we shouldn't talk anymore. What should I do just ignore his phone calls or what. I do have 2 of his dvds though. He may want them back, but I wanted to teach him a lesson and not answer my phone.
carhill Posted October 16, 2009 Posted October 16, 2009 If you mistakenly pick up the phone the next time, merely defer your response with lines like "I don't know but will check it out" or "I'm busy right now but I'll get back to you" and then don't. DVD's make great frisbee's. 'I don't know what happened to them'
SoulSearch_CO Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 If you mistakenly pick up the phone the next time, merely defer your response with lines like "I don't know but will check it out" or "I'm busy right now but I'll get back to you" and then don't. DVD's make great frisbee's. 'I don't know what happened to them' HAHAHA...YES. Exactly. You don't owe this guy anything. I'd stop answering the phone. And the frisbee thing is awesome...especially if you have a gun.
SoulSearch_CO Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 Ah, skeet shooting Heck, yes. LOL Sounds like fun.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 This guy that has been using me for rides, my phone for his phone calls and sex called me today. Which type of a ride did he want this time?
Lucky_One Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 You are having sex with this guy, and you are upset because he asks you about the name of a book? Don't you think you should be upset that he is using you for sex rather than for library assistance?
Clep Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 Maybe pick up the phone and tell him you no longer wish to have a relationship, friendship or other. If you know he is using you, why not just stop him from using you. I don't really understand avoiding the call for however long he tries to call you. Since he is getting something out of you I would not expect for him to stop calling. I would not want to have to avoid calls on my own phone. I would just tell him where it is at and then hang up each time he calls after that. As for the dvd's, who cares, they are dvd's.
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