Author Ash20 Posted December 17, 2009 Author Posted December 17, 2009 Thank you so much for your support and input, Analyticalhope! I read your post and I'm sorry that whole thing happened to you, but I am so glad for you that your bf took your side and put his foot down with that girl and decided not to put up with her crap. That's how it should be. My bf, unfortunately, puts up with a lot more crap than he should. I did make the mistake of trying to give him an ultimatum...that's never good. But he is improving. He talks to her a lot less and doesn't fall for as much of her crap. He even believed me when I told him that her ultimatums are just bluffs. But I still think she needs to go away completely, no contact. He deserves better than that. She is all over guys all the time. He is too good for that. I've been taking a different approach to it by not mentioning the situation as much...I think she'll end up ruining their friendship by herself. Also, instead of giving him an ultimatum, I'm trying to point out how good of a guy he is and how he doesn't deserve a slutty drama starter like her in his life. In addition, there has been a recent development that I hope will end up making the picture much clearer for my bf. See, this girl posted a thing on facebook (you know those like chartoon characters and stuff that you tag your friends in like "the cute one", "the dirty one" etc.?) well this girl did one of those with music notes, and she tagged my bf as "the pain in the ass." There was also a music note labeled "the obnoxious one" and she tagged it as "the one who must not be named." She only tagged the people within my group of friends that go to my school, so I think it's a pretty safe bet that she is referring to me. So, I talked to my bf about it and he said he will talk to her about it. I pointed out that even though he said she has matured since being in college, she is clearly showing immaturity with that post, and she is not over this whole situation if she is calling me "the one who must not be named". He agreed and I know it'll hurt their friendship if he finds out it was about me, I'm just not sure how much.
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