Ex-gf problems

[wontgohomewou]

Okay so I need some advice.

 

My ex-gf came back into my life when school started. We broke up back in January and stayed away from each other until September, I probably saw her twice in that time and barely talked to her. The problem is that I realized my feelings for her never went away and her feelings didn't either, I think.

 

We're hanging out every single day now, we live on the same floor. We do all relationship stuff, but the problem is that she only does it in PRIVATE. If we go out in public together she'll act as a friend. If I give her a hug, she gets pissed at me. If we're at a party and I grab her hand to dance she pushes me away. I've called her out on it and she said that we'll never work so there's no use to be in a relationship (religion difference). She doesn't tell anyone that she still likes me and when I asked her why she said that it doesn't seem necessary to her since we aren't dating (she's right in that aspect).

 

Now the problem is that every time I try to get her out of my life, she makes an even bigger effort coming back. And it's just hard for me, personally. I'm actually in love with her and she lives on the same floor which makes it even harder. Anyone able to help me out?

[GrayClouds]

Okay so I need some advice.

 

My ex-gf came back into my life when school started. We broke up back in January and stayed away from each other until September, I probably saw her twice in that time and barely talked to her. The problem is that I realized my feelings for her never went away and her feelings didn't either, I think.

 

We're hanging out every single day now, we live on the same floor. We do all relationship stuff, but the problem is that she only does it in PRIVATE. If we go out in public together she'll act as a friend. If I give her a hug, she gets pissed at me. If we're at a party and I grab her hand to dance she pushes me away. I've called her out on it and she said that we'll never work so there's no use to be in a relationship (religion difference). She doesn't tell anyone that she still likes me and when I asked her why she said that it doesn't seem necessary to her since we aren't dating (she's right in that aspect).

 

Now the problem is that every time I try to get her out of my life, she makes an even bigger effort coming back. And it's just hard for me, personally. I'm actually in love with her and she lives on the same floor which makes it even harder. Anyone able to help me out?

 

Tell her exactly what you want , a real committed relationship, and if she necessitates simple go strict no contact. She acting like she is embarrass of you, keeping you on the hook incase she can not find something better.

 

 

YOU DESERVE MORE THEN THAT and if she can not see that then stop wasting your time with her and find some else that give you all she gives you and proud to do so.