mogul Posted October 16, 2009 Posted October 16, 2009 My spinoff of another thread. Just wondering if this approach would work for the ladies on here and what your personal preferred approach by a guy at the club would be on a night out. I have a pretty good success rates with getting numbers that lead to dates and so on with these. Wondering if they seem innocent enough and original as I tend to see majority of guys at clubs acting all bravado and macho. -I only start asking the girl for drinks if we had fun on the dance floor, mutual, genuine attraction and interest and would offer a drink to get her away from friends/dance floor and lead her to a more quiet place to talk and alone time. The ideal situation for me is if I were to see a girl on the dance floor with an overly eager/aggressive loser grinding on her, I would just simply put my hand out and have her take my hand and start dancing and often joke to her about "how much fun she was having with the other guy or if he was her boyfriend". Other than that, me jokingly backing up on her on the dance floor or introducing myself "Hi, i dont mean to bother you, but you have a beautiful smile/seem like an interesting person to get to know" and exchange names and go from there.
Author mogul Posted October 16, 2009 Author Posted October 16, 2009 Any opinions insight from all would be appreciated.... wow
EcstasyX6 Posted October 16, 2009 Posted October 16, 2009 Sounds hot to me. Approaches 1 and 3 are the best. #2 seems iffy. What if it is her bf, and he's just getting on her nerves, or if she ignores your hand and looks at you like you're a creep, then you're left looking stupid. Otherwise, Very nice approach IMO.
Soul Bear Posted October 16, 2009 Posted October 16, 2009 Don't make a mountain out of Mogul hahaha,sorry:o You sound confident, so I don't think you should be having any problems. Just keep being yourself and you will be just fine
lab_brat Posted October 16, 2009 Posted October 16, 2009 I like them. As long as you don't start grinding into her 2 minutes after you start dancing with her too I've never understood how guys like that think they can get away with it, its like ...'ok, i don't know you, but i'm just gonna start dancing up behind you and thrusting my crotch against your butt, and hopefully you'll be overcome by desire...'. It's disgusting. Another good way is to line up next to her at the bar when she goes to get drinks, and just start chatting casually.
Soul Bear Posted October 16, 2009 Posted October 16, 2009 I've never understood how guys like that think they can get away with it Some girls like to be treated like ****. It really depends on the social circles and classes you mix with..
New Again Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 I suppose in general any of those approaches are fine. I don't like clubs, mostly because I hate guys dancing up on me and I think anyone that does is a huge sketchball. So, to be honest, I personally would immediately hate you and never speak to you if you tried the approach of "saving" me from another guy dancing with me....I would think it was incredibly lame, sketchy, transparent, skeevy, cliche etc..... But again, that's coming from someone who doesn't enjoy the club scence
xpaperxcutx Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 1 sounds conservative to me, 2 is too cheesy, but 3 sounds extremely hot if the girl is a little intoxicated.
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