lovethetruth Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Hi Surfer Girl, I met a woman online and we both lived in Los Angeles. She email me on a dating site and I was immediately attractive to her picture and and what she wrote to me. I contacted her back and she immediately wrote me back again. We moved from the website to Instant Messenger. We seem to have this instant connection and want the same things. We would IM and use our webcams to talk during the day and night when she had her child. We became so comfortable with each other and even though it was so soon, she seemed like the one. Anyway, we decided to me and as soon as we saw each other we the connection was there and we held each other close and kisses. We started to make all these plans for the future, which were wonderful, but after such a shirt time may have not been the smartest thing to fall for, but I did. She told me she loved me and I told it to her back. And as stupid as it might seem, I did love her. Then suddenly she became more distant and told me how sad she was. I would reach out to help her, but she never let me know what I could do except to back off. I will admit I did not know what to do. I did not want to see her this way, and I did not know how far back she wanted me to move. I would ask her, but she was not clear. Anyway, I texted her back and let her know how I was feeling and that I was sad that i didn't know exaclty what to do. I then told her I deserve to be treated beeter then this. That was not a really understanding thing to do. Well, that was it. I never heard from her again. I tried contacting her but no answer. I called her, no answer, I wrote emails, no answer. As you can imagine, I am very heartbroken. I really shouldn't be, but I just let myself be open and walked with her into a beautiful world that closed up almost as soon as it opened. I was and am so hurt that I went ahead and deleted her off my facebook. I don't know what to do now. I guess it is all over.
Author Surfgal Posted October 30, 2009 Author Posted October 30, 2009 Funny you should ask, but I'm doing great! It looks like I've met someone, the same person I mentioned earlier, and last night I had a dream indicating I've mostly moved on inside wherein I had the chance to go back to her and turned it down despite her mostly attacking me (in the dream that is). That and the ex both drunk-dialed and drunk-emailed me in the past week and that was a bit of an egoboo - I didn't answer the former call and I didn't reply to the blank email. That I got an egoboo probably means I'm still a bit hurt by it all, but I'm not a slave to her anymore. How about you? I am doing wonderful. Time just heals. I am starting to meet new people but most as friends. I decided not to get too involved just because I want to finish my divorce. So just meeting new friends. I have met some really nice people. I am glad to hear you are doing better and did not respond to her drunking text and dialing.....sounds like your moving ahead....great job.
Turista Posted November 3, 2009 Posted November 3, 2009 I am doing wonderful. Time just heals. I am starting to meet new people but most as friends. I decided not to get too involved just because I want to finish my divorce. So just meeting new friends. I have met some really nice people. I am glad to hear you are doing better and did not respond to her drunking text and dialing.....sounds like your moving ahead....great job. I'm glad you're meeting people! And yeah, finish your divorce. I met someone I was with for 3 and 1/2 years just two months after my divorce finalized because I was finally clear to do so. Up to that point, I just wasn't ready... And from your picture, you're a total knoclout babe and don't let anyone convince you otherwise, mmmmkay?
Author Surfgal Posted November 4, 2009 Author Posted November 4, 2009 I'm glad you're meeting people! And yeah, finish your divorce. I met someone I was with for 3 and 1/2 years just two months after my divorce finalized because I was finally clear to do so. Up to that point, I just wasn't ready... And from your picture, you're a total knoclout babe and don't let anyone convince you otherwise, mmmmkay? Yes I totally agreee....just scary cuz so many freaks out there...... Thank you for the compliment...ur too sweet.....
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