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How can i figure this girl out?


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Hey,

 

I've recently started going out with this girl in my school, i've always had a good eye for her, but never really showed any interest, but we've started talking and i found out that i'm gettin' quite interested in her..

 

There's only one thing though, she's so mysterious, she gives me obvious signals, she says okay to go to the movies with me, she keeps asking me if i like this friend of mine (amalie) so i think she might be jealous, but it's still impossible to see through her, and really know what she's thinking.

 

She's also quite shy, so it's often that i have to take the intiative..

 

Anways, when she's so shy, and rarely takes contact i feel like an idiot, that keeps trying to call her etc, and it ends up in me playing hard to get.. And when we now meet, i feel that she's not interested at all, because of her shyness, and in that way i just can't get my self to flirt with her..

 

Any suggestions in what to do? What do you guys think, what is she thinking? I'm just getting so confused when in one moment she shows interest in me, and in the other she acts like she doesent care..

 

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

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How can i figure this girl out?

 

Break into her house while she is away, steal her underwear,shoes,makeup and a hat, go home dress up in it all and put on your war paint. Drink a bottle of red, red wine and some loud jazz, proceeded by some crazy dancing.

Try and feel what she may feeling. You really have to get inside their minds to figure women out. What better way to do that?

 

Alternativly, you could just ask her out already and stop trying to figure out what she wants or what she will say. You need to accept that she could reject you. Either way, you sound young and there will probably be a million more girls in your lifetime that you are attracted to. So don't sweat it. You got nothing to lose. Ask her out for a milkshake or something.

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you will NEVER EVER EVER be able to figure a woman out! EVER! just go with the flow.

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did i emphasize NEVER ? NEVER!!!!!!

 

you will just have to take her out, see how things go. take it slow. make a move. idk. but you will never be able to know whats in her head for sure.

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you will NEVER EVER EVER be able to figure a woman out! EVER! just go with the flow.

 

Freud dying with that as the last question on his mind apparently....

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I'm just getting so confused when in one moment she shows interest in me, and in the other she acts like she doesent care..

dude if i had a nickel for everytime a woman did that to me i'd be as rich as warren buffett

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