devaButterfly Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 I have been dating this guy for two months now. He seems like the perfect boyfriend. He listens to me, takes me out and makes me feel special. He comes from a traditional family like me. I havent met any of his friends. His family is in Turkey and obviously I cant meet them. But, I would like him to meet my parents. When I brought it up he said "What is need for that?" It is important to me because I want them to know the person I have been seeing. I wonder what his problem is. Is he serious about me or just playing games?
alphamale Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 he probably wants to marry you for a green card and doesn't want to meet your family cause they will then tell you that he wants to marry you for a green card
Yukikazi Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 OR.. you've only been going out for 2 months.. tad early for meeting the parents
NoneoftheAbove Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 I have been dating this guy for two months now. He seems like the perfect boyfriend. He listens to me, takes me out and makes me feel special. He comes from a traditional family like me. I havent met any of his friends. His family is in Turkey and obviously I cant meet them. But, I would like him to meet my parents. When I brought it up he said "What is need for that?" It is important to me because I want them to know the person I have been seeing. I wonder what his problem is. Is he serious about me or just playing games? Only way you can find out if you ask him " why cant you meet with my parents" again, he might think that its too early. You can tell him that, my parents would like to know whom im going out with and a chance to build up relationship with the family. It's not a big of a deal, dont get thoughts like " is he just playing games" just talk it out with him and see what is the problem. Good Luck
carhill Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 You haven't met any of his friends and his family is in Turkey. He's not interested in meeting your parents. Hmm.... How old are you and he?
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