contax Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 Have any of you experienced this? This is crazy. Before and today I thought of my ex with someone else and angirly got turned on. At the end this is torturous and a form of still pnning away at them...it's like the anger blinds you so bad you do something totally crazy...fantasize about that? Then I think what if she is doing crazy things we have never done like threesomes? I would never do that, but it's messed its like my own mind is doing this. I know others have experienced this. The thing is I want it to stop..I thought of it today for a few seconds...the goal is not to do it...it's so unfair...they getthe real thing and I'm stuck with a messed up fantasy? I'm focused on healing still.
JaggedRoad Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 I've had similar thoughts. I would have been deeply disturbed if we were still together, but I lack concern when those thoughts pop into my head now.
Author contax Posted October 15, 2009 Author Posted October 15, 2009 I've had similar thoughts. I would have been deeply disturbed if we were still together, but I lack concern when those thoughts pop into my head now. Awesome. I like the way you're handling them. It's like thoughts can come through, but so what..we can choose what we pay attention to. Thank you, enjoy your day!
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