JL911 Posted October 15, 2009 Share Posted October 15, 2009 Welp...Its my birthday and wouldnt ya know it the dumb bit@h of an ex thought she would email me to remind me she didnt forget... DELETED NO RESPONSE.....I'm not sad, I dont care anymore... UPDATE ON ME: Im dating a smoking hottie now who just makes my life fun as can be....Dont know how long it will last and really do not care... Link to post Share on other sites
logitech Posted October 15, 2009 Share Posted October 15, 2009 Good work JL. My birthday is exactly a month away and it falls on the same day as her dad's (so it's not like she will ever forget it). It will be interesting to see if she bothers though. Good for you for having the strength to delete it NC. Also congrats on being with someone new. I expect it will still be some time for me before I meet anyone... Link to post Share on other sites
JaggedRoad Posted October 15, 2009 Share Posted October 15, 2009 Happy Birthday! Oddly enough, I share my birthday with my ex's mom. Link to post Share on other sites
DustySaltus Posted October 15, 2009 Share Posted October 15, 2009 Happy Birthday! Mine is on the 26th and my ex's is on the 27th. So it's going to be a tough month, but we'll get through it. Congrats on the new girl...does she have any friends:rolleyes:..lol please I have my hands full right now. Good luck buddy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JL911 Posted October 15, 2009 Author Share Posted October 15, 2009 (edited) Its kinda how everyone else stated it...Its only when you start to move on with life and forget the past when your selfish ex's come back to check in on how things are going with you...... Its like I had a feeling this was going to happen today, and it did...Im just glad I cut the beasts head off before I let things start over or thought about getting involved...Im not going back...Im enjoying life too much right now to go back into a relationship that has already failed once....At first it suxed, but now I am really enjoying my freedom and really making the most out of it. I really like the new girl I am seeing...Shes too fun...lol....I dont think its gonna be anymore than a fling, but I'm going to enjoy it while i can... For all those suffering...It gets better, but you really have to let it...It's not the end of the world, eventhough it seems like it... Edited October 15, 2009 by JL911 Link to post Share on other sites
Soul Bear Posted October 15, 2009 Share Posted October 15, 2009 (edited) Happy Birthday man! hahahahaha...nice one My ex did that on my birthday after 3 months NC, and that was the turning point for me too. The dreams Stopped, The pining for her stopped and I started to feel happy ALL the time... Now 7 months on life is still sweet as it could be and I'm still smiling and have more than moved on Well Done! Edited October 15, 2009 by Soul Bear Link to post Share on other sites
Author JL911 Posted October 15, 2009 Author Share Posted October 15, 2009 Also congrats on being with someone new. I expect it will still be some time for me before I meet anyone... That is the exact attitude that prevents you from meeting someone. Once I got over the insecurity the breakup caused me, I realized what a cocky and confident sum'bitch I was prior to being in a relationship....Not to mention how many girls were attracted to me prior to it as well... It didnt take me too long to collect myself and start actively searching for someone new and actually enjoying their company. My personality kinda pulls girls in for some reason. Im not overly attractive, or interesting, or whatever. I guess just me as a whole works for whatever reason. Im content with who I am and not ashamed or shy about it. Maybe thats why...I dunno...lol I crossed paths with a few girls so far, this is the one I am currently involved with and shes the one I am most interested in...There probaly will be others down the road as well...lol Link to post Share on other sites
logitech Posted October 15, 2009 Share Posted October 15, 2009 Yeah I know it is what holds me back at the mo but I am comfortable with that. I tend to be the guy that makes sure people get home ok etc. To be honest that is something I'm not ashamed of but at the same time I am trying to do it a bit less. I've been making sure I put myself out there and I feel as though if I was to meet the right person for me I think things should just happen. Maybe that is a bit of a dream but I'm willing to wait. Hell I have never even had a fling!! Good luck with it all JL Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted October 16, 2009 Share Posted October 16, 2009 Welp...Its my birthday and wouldnt ya know it the dumb bit@h of an ex thought she would email me to remind me she didnt forget... DELETED NO RESPONSE.....I'm not sad, I dont care anymore... Excellent! Wish everyone who has been dumped would react this way! UPDATE ON ME: Im dating a smoking hottie now who just makes my life fun as can be....Dont know how long it will last and really do not care... PICS OR BAN!!! :laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
Author JL911 Posted October 16, 2009 Author Share Posted October 16, 2009 Oddly enough Cali the real deal is as long as I was in a relationship I was fairly content with life and always was able to do whatever I want. I remember the 1st time my ex and I had sex...I didnt even know if i wanted to date her at the time, i thought she was kinda shallow, fake, and a bit over dramatic...I just kinda got roped into it and went along with it...4 years later I somehow got convinced that what I did was right and I found myself something. I thought we had more in common than we did...It was more like we just got used to one another and well I guess I didnt want to let go of what I was used to...My ex did me a favor and at the same time made a great mistake...I wont be back... Here I am now dating someone new and its like a whole new aspect on things...I cant get enough of her...Shes a smoking hott little thing, friggin witty, smart as hell, keeps me on my toes, our personalities match a lot better, she doesnt expect me to call her 10 times a day or even once for that matter, and from what I learned last night well lets just say thats pretty damn good too....Its a much better fit for me right now... Im happy again, and back to my old self....Thats all that matters... Link to post Share on other sites
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