ex girlfriend wants date

[jungle1]

Hi all!

i was with my girlfriend for 4 years and about 2 months ago she broke up with me because she needed space and wanted to enjoy herself with her friends (she never really used to go out with them whilst being with me, not that i ever stopped her, i actually encouraged her to!). so anyway whilst i was away on a boys holiday she text me asking when i was back home and said she wanted to see me! ive only since then started to be in contact with her as i gave her the space she wanted. she says she misses me and that she doesnt like being on her own, have i met any girls? blah blah blah. ive arranged a date with her for this saturday to go out for dinner.

what im asking you guys out there is.... what should i expect? how should i be/react around her? should i push for anything (like a kiss)?

i really do love this girl and i miss her like crazy, i know its still early from the breakup but i'd do anything to have her back!

thanks for reading and to any replys!

x

[Davey McG]

Don't expect anything.

 

Act pleased to see her but not as if you're in love. Don't tell her about what you've been up to with other women (even if it's nothing). You don't kiss and tell.

 

Just be your normal happy self and don't bring up getting back with her. Thats for her to do. It will make you look desparate if you do this.

 

She may want to see you because she wants to get back together, but there's a big chance its for an ego boost because whoever she left you for (there will be someone other than her friends) broke up with her or isn't giving her the attention she needs. Tread carefully.

[GrayClouds]

Hi all!

and that she doesnt like being on her own,

x

 

That statement would concern me. it suggest that she is settling for you because it is better then the current alternative rather then being unquestionably in love with you. She may be just as happy with a new puppy or just keep you around until she finds a better replacement.