Thebob Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 (this is a rant or motivational speech if anything, you decide) For everyone who is trying to cope, and you want to break that NC ( I know I want to ) just say, " EFF THIS ****". For everyone who is like, I want them back, I want to contact him/her, it's driving me crazy! just say , " EFF THIS ****". Do whatever it takes, Button mash a whole 10 page word document to get the stress off your mind, trust me it works. For everyone who is like, it was so good though! we were the best of couple, I can't lose him/her completely, get that goooobly memories out of your mind and say , " EFF THIS ****" and move on with your life. NO point crying about it over and over and over, cause its over, that's the past, even though its so hard, but its something that is meant to be done, and you know it deep down. Live your life, put a rubberband on your wrist and snap yourself everytime you feel like your going to break down, it helps, your mind starts thinking of the pain of your wrist instead of your ex. **** put 10 rubberbands on your wrist if all i care and snap yourself a million times. Have your roommates snap you if you start getting all gooshy inside. Life isn't about depression, were lucky to be alive and you need to live every life to it's fullest. So all i have to say, " IS EFF THIS ****". I need to move on and forget about this person. It's hard but it has to be done. They dumped you, or you dumped them, it wasn't meant to be, it's over, stop crying and move on! call family members, call anyone just to get your mind off that person. Go and smoke some pot, wutever makes you relax and forget about that person. remember Eff this ****, I got better things to do than wheep in sorrow over a lost relationship. My life is to precious than to have a broken heart for months on end, when I could be moving on and kicking my own ass to get **** done. HOpefully this helps Thebob
Bullydog1982 Posted October 16, 2009 Posted October 16, 2009 Stay strong TheBob, you're on the right track with NC.
angelface78 Posted October 16, 2009 Posted October 16, 2009 Tired of being depressed. Tired of crying. Tired of hoping. Tired of analyzing. Tired of wondering. Tired of always being the bigger person to this jerk. EFF THIS ****!!!!!!!
Author Thebob Posted October 17, 2009 Author Posted October 17, 2009 THanks, I try bully lol..... it's gettin better tho!
Tamia78 Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 I'm just tired of thinking about what I THOUGHT was him.......he's a douche........EFF THIS ****!!!!!!!!
cdt76 Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 I'm tired of the EFFING DREAMS! Nothing like a FREAKING dream to bring back all the EFFING crap and anger! @%*(%^#$&& CRAP!
aerogurl87 Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 What finally worked for me and getting rid of all the attachment issues I had and feeling in love with my ex, was thinking back on all the bad times (and there were enough to keep me preoccupied for awhile) instead of thinking of all the "good times".
Author Thebob Posted May 5, 2010 Author Posted May 5, 2010 yea, I think we all try that, but we all try that one time or the other until that one song comes on or some object reminds you of them in which all the good memories flood right back in. It gets kinda ridiculous. But that is good that you do that though =) Thebob
blind_otter Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 Eff this crap indeed. If only I could go no contact - I would probably not want to constantly carve my eyeballs out of my head with a spork.
scottishlassy Posted May 6, 2010 Posted May 6, 2010 Tired of being depressed. Tired of crying. Tired of hoping. Tired of analyzing. Tired of wondering. Tired of always being the bigger person to this jerk. EFF THIS ****!!!!!!! Amen! I am in this same boat!
JustWantAHug Posted May 8, 2010 Posted May 8, 2010 Eff this ****! -it feels really good saying that out loud.
Author Thebob Posted May 8, 2010 Author Posted May 8, 2010 Eff this ****! -it feels really good saying that out loud. lol hell yea
Lost Fish Posted May 8, 2010 Posted May 8, 2010 I'm tired of her random vanishing acts everytime things got good and the second guessing and insecurity that would mount up in me. EFF THAT ****!
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