tVII Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 real quick, first gf, 6 months, CO-WORKERS. 6 months later... i felt like i was doing fine then all of a sudden BAM. I find out she is seeing someone. Worst thing is, i KNOW her so I know how infatuated she gets so its just killing me. I'm scared of this weekend because usually i don't get the chance to go out and party nowadays and i know i will be home studying while she is out doing what i don't want to think about. I started smoking again today after I quit and I feel like i took 1000 steps back and Im down again. Any advice would be helpful if not thanks for reading i guess.
angelface78 Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 I know how you feel. It sucks. There are going to be hard days ahead..where you will wonder about was she's doing a lot. It gets better though. You will reach a point where you will begin to accept it. Thats the hardest part...acceptance. It will get better....dont worry. Dont smoke...do it for yourself! Youre only hurting yourself. Hang in there.
Lamak Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 Try to remember all the reasons why you don't want to be with her.
edward-e Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 i used to do this. i would sit there and think about her having sex with the "new" guy and get pissed about it, BUT in the end it actually helps which is kinda wierd. i felt like i got over it faster than i would have if i just sat there trying to keep my mind occupied because i dealt with it head on and got my emotions out and although it hurts, the hurting helps u think wow do i really wanna be with a person who would leave me and do this? no. i dont.
Author tVII Posted October 15, 2009 Author Posted October 15, 2009 thanks for the responses. ill definitely keep them in mind. its 5 in the morning where Im at and I just had the worst dream. Im guessing you guys could figure out what it is about. honestly i was FINE before this. my friends said i was laughing again and back to my old self entirely. now i feel broken down again...but definitely the responses will help.
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