trueblue72ny Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 It kinda sounds weird to myself, asking this stuff. But I forgot how hard it can be meeting someone new. I think she is interested! but just checking with others to see what anyone has to say. She is 29. I am 37. We have been talking lightly for about 2 months. Than we decided to meet up. Since then we have hung out the last three weekends in a row! Last weekend it was twice! Its always at a store or a mall, or a bite to eat. We have not been to each others places. We always seem to be ‘bumping’ into each other when we are walking together. As far as I know we plan on seeing each other again. We have said things to each other like “well the next time….” or she says “I’ll show you how to shovel snow this winter” I always get hugs. There seem to be good feelings going on between us. I have no complaints other than I want more! I usually hear from her everyday or so. Not always, but most of the time. Sometimes its just a text. Sometimes it’s a phone call. I haven’t tried to kiss her yet. But want too. She seems to be a very cautious girl. Has been hurt in the past more than once and has not been in a lot of relationships. I get the feelings she doesn’t just jump into things. She has said things like its will be quite awhile before any guy meets my daughter. But than let me see her from a distance this past weekend at the mall. Than said too bad you didn’t see her up close. I think she likes me, but maybe she is just being cautious?? Or taking things slow?? I am excited about her, but at the same time I don’t want to jump the gun. so im thinking just chilling out and taking it slow is my best approach? I haven’t felt this way in awhile!!!!!!!! its really cool feeling!!! But its also confusing!!!!! Thanks for taking the time to read this!
dreamergrl Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 I think you're doing everything right. I also think it sounds like she likes you. Take things one day (or date) at a time, and let it progress naturally. Good luck!
Author trueblue72ny Posted October 14, 2009 Author Posted October 14, 2009 Thanks dreamergrl! That makes sense. Take it one date at a time : ) Thanks Wise1! I know its had to give advice when you don’t know someone. She is a very independent girl. she seems a little head strong. She raised her daughter without the father. He left her and the area. Never asked him for support. Has her own job. Pays her own rent. The other guy she dated awhile ago, he left her. Her dad left her when she was a kid. she hasn’t dated anyone in more than a year. this is why I think she is cautious and takes her time. that’s gotta affect a girl ya know?? she depends on her mom a lot. Im not scared to make a move. I just want it to be right. we do get physically close ot each other when we are out. i just wonder if she has man abuse issues. and just takes her time now. I’ll be happy to break the cycle for her. she doesnt come across as needy, or clingy. and i plan on reciprocating that. as i do not want to come across as overly available, needy or clingy either.
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