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[samerdardy]

Ok this is going to be a long sorta story about whats happened so far.

 

I met this girl (Brother's sister to be exact about 9 months ago).

I always had a little thing for her. But we started to hang out a fair bit, and eventually when you hang out with a girl long enough you start to like her.

Anyways long story short, I would always be taking her out just to hang out but only as friends.

 

Did this for a few months, and everytime we went out to clubs we would just be real close to each other, arms all around her, dirty dancing etc. We would never kiss but if anyone didnt know, they would have thought we were a couple.

At the time she liked another guy, so I said stuff it, i'm not going to bother chasing a girl who's interested in another guy, so I stopped talking to her/seeing her.

This was for about 3 or so months.

 

3 Months later I see her out at a music festival, and again shes all over me.

Tells me how much she missed me, why i stopped seeing her etc.

Anyways; for that whole day we were quite all over each other, Never got to kiss her, but we were pretty inseperable, holding hands, arms around her while kissing her neck for a fair while.

She seemed to be loving it.

 

Now since then, we have been msging and talking a fair bit.

Took her out to a club a week later, sorta did the same thing as the festival kissing her neck and dancing with her, but this time she was little bit less unkeen.

My mate asked her abit on what was going on; she said "hes like my best friend" - but i dont see how this works as everything that i've done, there is no way a best friend does those things. I think she may have said that to avoid answering.

And the next night she said she was going to meet me out, but ended up going else where without telling me.

 

Rang her up in the morning spoke to her for abit, told her to call me after work. But she didnt call.

 

What do people think is happening here, Am i going towards the friendzone as I was in the months before?

I havent talked to her for about 3 days now (I'm planning on not talking to her until she makes first contact)

 

Anyone have any advice/ideas on what to do or have an idea on where I stand with her?

 

Thanks in advanced

[Double]

what do you mean when you say that this girl you're interested in is your brother's sister? Wouldn't that make her your sister?......

 

I realize that's a dumb question, but please clarify the relationships here.

[samerdardy]

oops, i ment my friends sister

[Yukikazi]

You're in the friendzone.. she's treating you like a brother.. give it up and move on.. 3 months apart didn't turn her around..

 

Tell me.. have you ever went to hug or kiss her and heard her make that little "uff* noise that girls like to make when they are doing something (like getting a hug) from someone they would rather not be getting hugged by or something...

[samerdardy]

nah i dont think shes ever made that uff noise - as far as i can remember.

 

but yeah think i might have to face it that we are in the friend zone.

 

in the last few days she made first contact so could that mean shes some what keen or just friends?

 

but it does sorta feel like im close to turn it out of the friend zone

Edited October 16, 2009 by samerdardy

[samerdardy]

well bit of an update sorta;

 

this girls been trying to talk to me for the past few days but ive sorted ignored her.

this was only cos i found out that shes playing a few different guys at the same time.

ie i spoke to another guy, who was getting the same mixed signals as me, and also hints etc etc.

so really you think its exclusive but its exclusively between like 8 different guys.

it seems shes keen on a fair few people, trying to get with different guys.

 

so ive decided to completely ignore her/move on.

though i dont think shes gotten the point and still tries talking to me/acts keen..