Tommy G Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 Hi I am new to the forum. I have been going out with a girl for 18 months up until the end of August. She moved to University two weeks ago (only 30 miles away) Since our break up which was sort of her but mutual at the same time we have been texting and speaking on the phone daily. A few weeks ago she said she wanted to give it a go but needed space while she settled into Uni. I didn't really give her much space and we ended up arguing a lot on the phone snce she has been there up until Sunday. I basically told her then that I wanted to sack off all contact with her - no txts, calling, facebook etc. NOTHING. She wasn't ok with this, I made it clear that she was to contact me by a phone call if she wanted to give our relationship a serious go again. I was fed up of being pi**ed about by this gir for almost 2 months now. we managed monday but yesterday she sent me a txt asking why I was at a party on saturday with a load of girls (I guess this is jealousy) and saying things like ''you were clearly there looking for someone else blah blah blah etc'' I txt back after a few hrs reassuring her this wasn't the case, she then ignored me since. I guess it was a mistake txting her back? Maybe this NC will bring her back, if not it will give me a chance to heal and move on, right? Just need some pointers whats to do if she tries to contact me again. To give you some background we have been in contact on a daily basis for 18 months with a max of 2 days with NC. So its very likely that she will cotact me within the next week. I'm quite diciplined so I won't be doing so, the weight of trying to reconcile this is off my shoulders and onto hers. Help! Cheers
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