Lizzie60 Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 I don't get it.. you say she wants to move out.. and the lease is up in 2 months.. what is the problem? let her move out.. keep the apartment if you like it.. move on.. find another girl... and life is beautiful.. Would I date you.. maybe .. I dated a young 27 yr old about 7 years ago.. I was 50 then... he had a PhD in some bio... something.. I forgot.. he was extremely smart.. rich... everything.. he was a real gentleman.. but I don't think I would have seen him for a very long time.. he was nice.. but he was too much of a womanizer... for a long term relationship... and wayyy too kinky (a bit pervert on the side).. he moved to Chicago ... so we lost track.. People.. cut the guy some slack.. I'm sure he's a nice guy in real life..and he doesn't brag... you just jumped on him... and he had to defend himself.. relax LSers.. I believe he's young, rich, spoiled.. what's wrong with that.. jealousy is ugly... OP.. just relax.. enjoy life.. don't take it too seriously.. I'm sure you'll find a nice girl someday..
Untouchable_Fire Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 Rolling over, laughing my f*cking a** off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Guess you shouldn't buy her a drink then. That's some funny $hit dude. If you are referring to Dreamer as sane, you have lost your flipping mind. I saw one of her threads. Its a bit scary and she is far from sane. Don't hate on Jigga23. LOLPeace Jigga23, please.... your not qualified to make that kind of statement. Go back and read your own thread.
Star Gazer Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 If you're only making $5K a month ($60K a year) before taxes, I'd say you're overextended with all of your "material possessions." As for whether I'd be in a LTR with you, decidedly not.
kiss_andmakeup Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 Hmmm, seems with all this big talk you may be trying to compensate for something?
Author jigga23 Posted October 15, 2009 Author Posted October 15, 2009 I had a job paying 50k and in 7 months it was going to be jumped up to 85k and move out to LA but I decided to stop and pursue other things which I am doing right now. Jobs will always be there. I avg 5-6k a month after taxes. Anyways If you saw what my business was you would be jealous. Even my tax accountant was like holy ****. Anyways Lizzie thanks for your curtious response. Everyone can learn from her and not jump on some dude because he says soemthing. Yea I am a nice guy but when people attack i defend. Im multi cultured I chose to hang out with predominately whites even though I grew up and went to school with people from all over the world. Dreamergrl you live in Denver? Well so do I, I live right downtown. So I hope youre not going to say denver is diverse. LOLOL well maybe I will actually see you out and you can buy me a drink. Youll find me at suite 200 if you decide to get away from Maloneys.
Author jigga23 Posted October 15, 2009 Author Posted October 15, 2009 God dreamer seriously its crazy you live in Denver. Seriously though Ill call you a truce with you since you live where I live Denver is pretty small so It wouldnt suprise me if Ive seen you. You live downtwon or in the burbs?
TheLoneSock Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 I had a job paying 50k and in 7 months it was going to be jumped up to 85k and move out to LA but I decided to stop and pursue other things which I am doing right now. Jobs will always be there. I avg 5-6k a month after taxes. Anyways If you saw what my business was you would be jealous. Even my tax accountant was like holy ****. Anyways Lizzie thanks for your curtious response. Everyone can learn from her and not jump on some dude because he says soemthing. Yea I am a nice guy but when people attack i defend. Im multi cultured I chose to hang out with predominately whites even though I grew up and went to school with people from all over the world. Dreamergrl you live in Denver? Well so do I, I live right downtown. So I hope youre not going to say denver is diverse. LOLOL well maybe I will actually see you out and you can buy me a drink. Youll find me at suite 200 if you decide to get away from Maloneys. First you call her a monster from a children's movie then you flirt with her. You're cool.
Star Gazer Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 LOL... Your a joke. 5k a month isn't that much... triple that then tell me how your livin' large. Poker? You seriously think your going to make millions at poker? Thanks for helping to build those huge casinos I like to stay in! Oh... and I would buy Dreamer a drink. Any day. I'm not sure if you noticed but there is a massive shortage of non-crazy women. I would happily buy a drink for one who is that pretty... and sane. :lmao:
mogul Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 Honestly, 5k a month equates to 60k. Not that much to be "balling", but above the national average salary I believe. If the merc is paid off or have reserves to, I would respect that. Anything short of it, is faking it imo. Out of curiosity, what model is the benz? Should of went bimmer ftw. Contemplated getting a cls amg a while back but decided with the m5.
Star Gazer Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 I thought the monster was 'the nothing' and didn't really have a face.. but it's been a while. I tried looking it up, but I couldn't find a picture of 'the nothing'. It's the flying white dragon thing. Like this: http://herestheproblem.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/falcor.jpg In any event, I don't know why anyone continues to feed this thread. I think the answer to the OP is pretty unanimous... right?
lamaman3 Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 Qualifying and trying to impress complete strangers on the internet, asking if they would date you automatically makes you a loser. Nothing you type after that matters. Happy to help!!
mushmush Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 OP If you are so happy why are you looking for validation of your own self worth?? You sound very lonely and insecure in who you are as a person.
BookerT Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 Lol, this thread was so funny, and why are some of you getting wound up by this kid? If he's not a troll then I think this: Yes with his money and lifestyle he can get girls that are into that type of thing. But if he wants a long term relationship with a girl that's into him as a person then forget it. He's too shallow.
torranceshipman Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 I'm going to call this out...I don't think this guy comes from money like he says he does, as he doesn't sound whatsoever like someone who is familiar with luxury and who has an affluent background. He sounds like someone who needs lots of 'bling' and quick cash around to try and make others THINK he has money. Plus his perception of what constitutes luxury and a lot of money are REALLY off....
stace79 Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 I'm going to call this out...I don't think this guy comes from money like he says he does, as he doesn't sound whatsoever like someone who is familiar with luxury and who has an affluent background. He sounds like someone who needs lots of 'bling' and quick cash around to try and make others THINK he has money. Plus his perception of what constitutes luxury and a lot of money are REALLY off.... I agree... He's the guy driving a leased luxury car and renting b/c he can't afford the lease and the mortgage in the same month. Or the guy that wears AX but doesn't have a cent in his savings or IRA accounts. I don't think he gets the idea of "net worth" as opposed to just having a lot of stuff.
Rudderless Posted October 16, 2009 Posted October 16, 2009 I'm going to call this out...I don't think this guy comes from money like he says he does, as he doesn't sound whatsoever like someone who is familiar with luxury and who has an affluent background. He sounds like someone who needs lots of 'bling' and quick cash around to try and make others THINK he has money. Plus his perception of what constitutes luxury and a lot of money are REALLY off....I'm going to call you, stace and dreamergrl out. Either the guy is real in which case he has a few issues that need addressing, or he's simply a windup merchant. Either way, flicking through this thread, the spew towards him is not big, clever, or helpful. It's not tough love, a reality check, or honesty. I have no idea what inspires you guys to deconstruct him in such a vicious manner. It doesn't paint you out to be as mature as you are claiming your choice of partner would be. This level of back and forth bickering with a stranger is hardly a sign of someone who's engaged in life.
SoulSearch_CO Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 No, I wouldn't be interested in you. I don't go for flashy types.
my_new_haircut Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 I smell BS.. How come all these girls are saying in this thread that they want a guy who's loving, sweet and kind but in another recent thread they said otherwise. In the bad-boy thread, girls we're saying they didnt want a guy who was too nice and gave them flowers etc...
torranceshipman Posted October 17, 2009 Posted October 17, 2009 Seriously rudderless, chill out...Higgs is intentionally winding people up and saying crazy things and I'm enjoying his actions and posting accordingly. the fact that I (and many other posters) have simply pointed out tht he doesn't have much money in the first place (and that he shouldn't refer to others as uneducated scum) is hardly that harsh. As to whether this relates to wanting a mature man....I don't get how you are relating that fact to this post (& I already have a lovely one, as it happens!)
stace79 Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 Seriously rudderless, chill out...Higgs is intentionally winding people up and saying crazy things and I'm enjoying his actions and posting accordingly. the fact that I (and many other posters) have simply pointed out tht he doesn't have much money in the first place (and that he shouldn't refer to others as uneducated scum) is hardly that harsh. As to whether this relates to wanting a mature man....I don't get how you are relating that fact to this post (& I already have a lovely one, as it happens!) I have one, too, as the case may be. So he can keep spewing his BS about how he supposedly sees me. Like I'd care, anyway.
harmfulsweetz Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 You're cocky and that is offputting. First up, you're obsessed with the amount you make. Good for you. But not everyone looks for that in a potential SO, if they did-I'm sure they'd find someone far richer. Sorry, but to me, that's nothing really to brag about. If my man was worth 20 mill, would I work? Yes. A man can ditch you in a second, yes, I'd live a good lifestyle, but I'd be paying my own way as much as I could. People want love, emotional security etc etc, those sort of things take precedence over the lifestyle, the money, the cars. A car will lose it's value, and the lifestyle it's novelty, a good solid relationship won't. I'd rather be with my boyfriend who is on peanuts (as you said) who offers me what I value most, than be with someone who assumes what I value is materialistic. Your girlfriend wants to be a housewife? Fair play to her, just hope she has a safety net to fall back on.
C-i-C-u Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 (edited) Lol you go to vegas and bet $5 a hand on blackjack and quit when you get up $50? Ive gone to vegas and won thousands in a short time. Its not about the materialistic things its just saying I can buy things if I want. I haven't bought her something nice for a long time. I basically give her money if she needs it. I pay for the majority of bills its actually lop-sided on me. Lol self worth? Well you know what I got more knowledge about any topic you can think of. Ive experienced things that not to many in the US can say. I lived overseas. I personally know the former deputy prime minister of a country if you want I can call him now. Ive hung with the granddaughter of royalty from another country multiple times. My cousins married to a particular former US presidents FIRST cousin and Ive hung with him. Ive ran around US embassys and had personal conversations with a US ambassador. I was bestfriends with the daugther of a 4 star general. To all the repliers out there, who many of your BF's have experiences like me? The repliers on here just reiteriate who ridiculous women are. A man works at a job making like 35-40k for a while and thats not good enough. Then he makes about 60-70k not working and thats still not good enough becuase hes not a desk but can provide better. Oh oh I can I can! My dad works as a manager for an Indian corporation. I got to meet two of India's richest people and their family members. I got to stay in a mansion so big that that it made me feel dizzy from its humongous size. My grandfather was Chief Justice of Mexico and his father was the secretary of Treasury and his uncle was the secretary of defense. But forget about them, going back to the billionaires family members. I played against them in sports and hung out with them in moscow. I got to fly in THEIR private jet with them that was loaded with gold. We partied in Moscow, I went to exclusive nightclubs with them and we spent so much money, that it makes my dad's income look like nothing; lets not forget my dad earns 29k a month. So that is-29k x 12- 348,000 dollars a year and thats including taxes. My dad is in the 3 percentile for highest earners. That means he is earning more than 97% of all the people out there and he isn't a pretender like you. My dad wears clothing from 20 yrs ago and he drives an old pickup truck. Oh, I also got to travel all over Europe. I am only 23 and I have been in most European countries. And to top that off, I am traveling to southeast asia by myself and staying in five star hotels. Dude, on a serious note. Money doesn't define you and you need to stop chasing it because being realistic you won't ever get it that way. And just because you don't hang out with "uneducated scum" doesn't mean that the crowd you hang out with isn't scum. Edited October 18, 2009 by C-i-C-u
You'reasian Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 You're cocky and that is offputting. First up, you're obsessed with the amount you make. Good for you. But not everyone looks for that in a potential SO, if they did-I'm sure they'd find someone far richer. Sorry, but to me, that's nothing really to brag about. If my man was worth 20 mill, would I work? Yes. A man can ditch you in a second, yes, I'd live a good lifestyle, but I'd be paying my own way as much as I could. People want love, emotional security etc etc, those sort of things take precedence over the lifestyle, the money, the cars. A car will lose it's value, and the lifestyle it's novelty, a good solid relationship won't. I'd rather be with my boyfriend who is on peanuts (as you said) who offers me what I value most, than be with someone who assumes what I value is materialistic. Your girlfriend wants to be a housewife? Fair play to her, just hope she has a safety net to fall back on. You sound like a mature person and I agree with your message.
C-i-C-u Posted October 18, 2009 Posted October 18, 2009 You're cocky and that is offputting. First up, you're obsessed with the amount you make. Good for you. But not everyone looks for that in a potential SO, if they did-I'm sure they'd find someone far richer. Sorry, but to me, that's nothing really to brag about. If my man was worth 20 mill, would I work? Yes. A man can ditch you in a second, yes, I'd live a good lifestyle, but I'd be paying my own way as much as I could. People want love, emotional security etc etc, those sort of things take precedence over the lifestyle, the money, the cars. A car will lose it's value, and the lifestyle it's novelty, a good solid relationship won't. I'd rather be with my boyfriend who is on peanuts (as you said) who offers me what I value most, than be with someone who assumes what I value is materialistic. Your girlfriend wants to be a housewife? Fair play to her, just hope she has a safety net to fall back on. I'm a man and I'll be honest. If I loved you, I would most likely never stop. Especially if you are a good women, nice, caring. If you wanted to be a housewife, then fine. I would always take care of you and of the family.
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