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first your not the sharpest knife in the drawer are you? goto photobucket, upload the photo and then post the link..... 5 year olds can do that.

 

second you come off as a major douchebag, on the level of ed hardy shirts getting bottle service in VIP at a lame club.. You are really trying to push the baller life... well your not a baller. 5k a month is nothing. i was making that when i was 22.... stop trying to live someone else's dream life and live your own. trips, cards, VIP are for wanna be hiphop stars. give it up. If thats who you are, well there are millions of dbags to hand out with. club sluts too.

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torr im not engaged and the lease ends in two months. Beautiful I got a party whore who I dazzle with my benz already lol.

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Im not asking if somone would date me based on looks. But if i saw you in a bar I would probably ask you to buy me a drink and you probably would and would want to chitter chat then I would say thanks and walk away. You think im joking dreamer about people i know. Thats the sign of someone who is a hater and a person that knows noone.

 

:lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:

 

Oh thank you! I haven't laughed so hard all week.

 

Oh and I know, would someone date you based off of all the superficial information you post about yourself. And your income that rises with each post. No, we still would not date you. Even if you know the best friend of the general's son's teacher.

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This thread is brilliant...

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I got two degrees undergrad and grad.

I have two degrees; an undergraduate and a graduate degree.

 

Yeah, right...

I dont care about typing properly on here.

 

People do not CHOOSE display ignorance over intelligence. You have obviously shown yourself to be ignorant which is quite sad. You had an opportunity to display insight and intelligence and instead have been arrogant and rude.

 

We feel sorry for you.

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torr ive gotten girls to buy me drinks at bars xuserx I dont wear ed hardy like yourself. LOL you think ed hardy is baller ****? hahahha I wear burberry, and lacoste, rock a 3k watch, 1.4k necklace, 2k diamond earrings and drive a 40 k car, so Im frontin? Frontin is wearing cubics and driving a 1998 benz. M'fer Ive had 6k flow through my hands in ONE day like nothing. When I go to LA you think I rent a dodge stratus? More like a brand new range or beamer. I know an AVERAGE of 5 k take home AFTER TAX aint nothing. Its a start considering Im not sitting at a desk. I bet in about 2 years ill be pulling in 6 figures. What do you do xuserx? You one of those dudes who says just cause a dude has nice stuff hes a douche? Wait you could have it and afford it but aren't just like that? You own a house? No you dont own a house, the bank owns it. They can take it away from you at anytime. So youre like 250k in debt so you probalby cant afford stuff like me.

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dreamer-dont talk anymore you look like the monster from never ending story, the nose and everything.

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torr ive gotten girls to buy me drinks at bars xuserx I dont wear ed hardy like yourself. LOL you think ed hardy is baller ****? hahahha I wear burberry, and lacoste, rock a 3k watch, 1.4k necklace, 2k diamond earrings and drive a 40 k car, so Im frontin? Frontin is wearing cubics and driving a 1998 benz. M'fer Ive had 6k flow through my hands in ONE day like nothing. When I go to LA you think I rent a dodge stratus? More like a brand new range or beamer.

 

What field did you get your graduate degree in?

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torr ive gotten girls to buy me drinks at bars xuserx I dont wear ed hardy like yourself. LOL you think ed hardy is baller ****? hahahha I wear burberry, and lacoste, rock a 3k watch, 1.4k necklace, 2k diamond earrings and drive a 40 k car, so Im frontin? Frontin is wearing cubics and driving a 1998 benz. M'fer Ive had 6k flow through my hands in ONE day like nothing. When I go to LA you think I rent a dodge stratus? More like a brand new range or beamer. I know an AVERAGE of 5 k take home AFTER TAX aint nothing. Its a start considering Im not sitting at a desk. I bet in about 2 years ill be pulling in 6 figures. What do you do xuserx? You one of those dudes who says just cause a dude has nice stuff hes a douche? Wait you could have it and afford it but aren't just like that? You own a house? No you dont own a house, the bank owns it. They can take it away from you at anytime. So youre like 250k in debt so you probalby cant afford stuff like me.

 

Are you really reading what you write? I get that some of us are egging you on, but really -- this type of immaturity is probably what your main problem is with this girl. Real men don't have to prove how great they are or flaunt all their material stuff in your face. A real man is comfortable with himself, whether he has a PhD from Harvard, a Benz, a Rolex and a house on a hill somewhere, or if he's a mechanic who wears jeans and work boots and grease every day, who drives a Chevy truck and rents an apartment.

 

BTW, I don't pull anywhere near to $5 or $6K per month, and even I had a $40K car...so that isn't making your case, dearie.

 

Lastly, I will reiterate, the fact that you gamble in casinos to make your money does not really help your cause at all. If you started and ran your own business, or your wrote books and collected royalties, or you worked hard and invested wisely -- those things would impress me. But you could lose everything you have just as quickly as you won it, because you obviously have no appreciation for hard work. That's a seriously lacking quality if a girl is looking for a future husband or long-term boyfriend.

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OMG stace I do own my own business thats where my income comes from. I pay taxes just like a normal 9 to 5. I got a tax/accountant and everything. My gf sees how much money I make doing my business with a small amount of effort and she doesnt like it.

 

I got my undergrad in business marketing and a grad degree in construction management with real estate.

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OMG stace I do own my own business thats where my income comes from. I pay taxes just like a normal 9 to 5. I got a tax/accountant and everything. My gf sees how much money I make doing my business with a small amount of effort and she doesnt like it.

 

I got my undergrad in business marketing and a grad degree in construction management with real estate.

 

Playing poker is not a business... You only mentioned in all your posts that you make your money from poker, and that's what you want to do for a living.

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You need to spend less time thinking about what you have or could have, and more time on what you are. I would say the main thing you need to work on is your attitude. You asked the members of this site a question, you got an honest answer based on the information you provided... which was mainly about what you have and not who you are. The ladies here stated that they would not want to be with someone who put their material things first. Had you placed some emphasis early on about who you are and what your godo quality traits are the response you received may have been more to your liking or at least not quite as one sided as it was. Emotional connection makes successful relationships, things only make flings. I'm not saying money is not important to quality of life, because it is. But not having it lets you work on yourself and truly become the best person you can be and allows you to find healthy relationships.

 

Honestly if I had a lot more money, I wouldn't really live any different than I do now and it would mainly sit in the bank. And I would definitely hold it aside during the dating stages of a relationship. I would let any potential partners know, if they asked, that I make enough to live comfortably but not that I have a ton of money in the bank. I would rather let them think I am more broke than rich, but I may be biased due to the lack of funds I had while dating but came away richer than I could have ever hoped to be. Here is my story about how having nothing let me truly have everything I've ever dreamed of:

 

I met my now fiance when I was broke, 19, in college, and living with my parents. I had little to no income, but I found a beautiful, sweet, amazing girl who I connect with on every level. For the first almost 2 years of our relationship we had nothing materialistic, but we did have each other. Pretty much all my money was put into my gas tank going to see her at her college about 5 times a week. We never really got to go anywhere outstanding. Sometimes the movies, mostly just downloading movies online and watching them and having fun outside. I then got a job making decent money, enough for us to get an apartment. Still not a ton of money leftover to do things, but a lot more than before. Fast forward another year and I am now 22, making a very good salary, we just purchased a house together, and still as close as ever. If I had the money I am making now back then who knows if things would have turned out the way they have. I consider myself very lucky to find such a wonderful girl who loves me for who I am and not what I can provide. She stayed with me for 2 years before we had anything and still it is like nothing has changed. Sure we can go out and have more fun now, but everything still falls back to the basics. It has nothing to do with what you have, all that matters is who you are. Who knows what types of girls my salary now would have attracted. By being completely broke and finding such a perfect girl there has never been a doubt in my mind that she loves me for me. And now we can afford to do all the things we used to just dream about doing when we were broke and had nothing but our love.

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He's black.

The only people who use terms like M'fer are black.

They wear 40 gold chains around their necks, two paste-diamond earrings and make weird meaningless gestures with their hands.

I know.

I watch movies too, you know.

 

Yo dude.....:rolleyes:

 

Pictures in my profile if you want to see them.

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Stace I own a business seperate from poker which is where my poker money/bankroll comes from.

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Black? lol Actually im half asian and half white. You think im hood or what? yea pretty hood going to grad school and my dad works for one of the largest oil companies in the world overseas.

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Im not saying money is everything Im talking about the mere fact about being able to pay for bills, take vacays and have back up when unexpected stuff happens.

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dreamer-dont talk anymore you look like the monster from never ending story, the nose and everything.

 

I'm not the one bragging about how wonderful I am. I don't need to. I'm confident in myself. Those who feel the need to tell everyone how great they are truly aren't. They are only trying to convince themselves.

 

torr ive gotten girls to buy me drinks at bars xuserx I dont wear ed hardy like yourself. LOL you think ed hardy is baller ****? hahahha I wear burberry, and lacoste, rock a 3k watch, 1.4k necklace, 2k diamond earrings and drive a 40 k car, so Im frontin? Frontin is wearing cubics and driving a 1998 benz. M'fer Ive had 6k flow through my hands in ONE day like nothing. When I go to LA you think I rent a dodge stratus? More like a brand new range or beamer. I know an AVERAGE of 5 k take home AFTER TAX aint nothing. Its a start considering Im not sitting at a desk. I bet in about 2 years ill be pulling in 6 figures. What do you do xuserx? You one of those dudes who says just cause a dude has nice stuff hes a douche? Wait you could have it and afford it but aren't just like that? You own a house? No you dont own a house, the bank owns it. They can take it away from you at anytime. So youre like 250k in debt so you probalby cant afford stuff like me.

 

You really don't get how unintelligent you sound. It's hard to read your posts and understand without going back. And it's not because we aren't smart. It's because you lack conversational skills and the basic knowledge of grammar.

 

The bank can only take the house away if you don't keep up on your monthly payments.

 

You feel the need to belittle people because you are so insecure in yourself that you want to find a way to feel higher above everyone, but really you aren't.

 

And I truly would laugh if I saw you sporting all that crap. You also could be the hottest guy in the world, but your personality is so dim and full of b.s. that it would make you the ugliest person.

 

When will you understand that a person with substance does not care about what you wear, drive, and make?

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Black? lol Actually im half asian and half white. You think im hood or what? yea pretty hood going to grad school and my dad works for one of the largest oil companies in the world overseas.

 

So now are you saying that only rich people make it through grad school? Obviously it didn't teach you much anyways.

 

Im not saying money is everything Im talking about the mere fact about being able to pay for bills, take vacays and have back up when unexpected stuff happens.

 

Guess what?!?! We can do that too!

 

If you actually had to work and pay your way through life, instead of having things handed to you, I'm sure you'd have a different outlook.

 

What will you do if all this glam and gold you have falls out from under you?

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Oh... my.... god.

 

NOT IF YOU WERE THE LAST MAN ON EARTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

IMO the worst thing about people like you is... you're so arrogant that all you see in peoples dislike for you is their jealousy and failure. UGH! I apologise for disgust and rage getting the better of me.

 

How about...

 

Ponder this one grasshopper. What is the ratio, based on your fans here? A poll of like/hate. The numbers do not lie!! Hate to break it to you... but it's not the 5% population of people you consider awesome that win out. Its the majority. The 95% who think people like you are bleeps. Egotistical blindness for the loseeee man.

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You think i was born yesterday? No **** that stuff doesnt make it or break it forever. People divorce millionaires or even billionaires. No the girl was saying I was black. Gold? I didnt say anything about going to grad school..the girl that I was some hood rat. I payed my way and have student loans because of grad school btw. You know what I dont think it will ever fall out from under me. People typically in this society do not go down in social class unless something drastic happens.

 

I know im spoiled and I do get things handed to me a lot. I was spoiled when I was little and I went to high school overseas with people who were cruisin 80k cars for their first cars. Labor was cheap over there and we had personal drivers, maids, gardeners, etc. same with all my friends over there. My friends lived in HUGE houses over there and had multiple ones in the city and on the beach. Tell me your outlook and lifestyle wouldn't be changed. My friends from the US noticed I changed after I came back. You think at 27 you can just switch over and live like a hippy and change my attitude. I know I got an attitude. But im not some stuck up snob. When I go overseas to visit I give the poor workers a lot of money because i feel sorry for them. They make like 2 dollars a day. Ive given some like 60 dollars just cause I wanted too and they were nice. But like i tell my parents I cant change over night.

 

Seriously all of you were egging me on. But I dont go flaunting money around, I dont just say hey you konw what kind of car i drive yadda yadda. Ive had girls ask me what kind of car I drive and I say a 92 honda accord no lie and I leave it at that. They see it they see it I dont go out of my way.

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torr ive gotten girls to buy me drinks at bars xuserx I dont wear ed hardy like yourself. LOL you think ed hardy is baller ****? hahahha I wear burberry, and lacoste, rock a 3k watch, 1.4k necklace, 2k diamond earrings and drive a 40 k car, so Im frontin? Frontin is wearing cubics and driving a 1998 benz. M'fer Ive had 6k flow through my hands in ONE day like nothing. When I go to LA you think I rent a dodge stratus? More like a brand new range or beamer. I know an AVERAGE of 5 k take home AFTER TAX aint nothing. Its a start considering Im not sitting at a desk. I bet in about 2 years ill be pulling in 6 figures. What do you do xuserx? You one of those dudes who says just cause a dude has nice stuff hes a douche? Wait you could have it and afford it but aren't just like that? You own a house? No you dont own a house, the bank owns it. They can take it away from you at anytime. So youre like 250k in debt so you probalby cant afford stuff like me.

 

LOL ok clearly you can't read or follow a sentance.. Didn't say you sport ed hardy, said you were on the level of the people that do. I guess I was wrong, they have more to offer than you will ever. Sigh... So your going to take the time to list off all those things? Dude your pawn shop 3k watch, 40k car means nothing. If you want to impress with lies, should of said you rent Bently, or a F550... This isn't about me, but if you must know I'm a CISO, look it up because I know you don't know what that is. And your a douche because you act like one. I know the type I see them all the time. And yes I do own my own house, paid off last year. so thx. I can afford stuff like you, but I don't need to flaunt it out for attention.

 

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With all that money I would first off pay all my student loans. Get completely out of debt. Go ahead and make $140k in a few days like your buddy did and knock the debt out. Or just throw all the extra you have at it like I do, the faster you take out your debt the better you can save in the future.

 

Everyone values money differently. You seem to have always lived a life full of luxary and seem to have no problem throwing money around. I on the other hand came from a much lower class family where my father worked multiple jobs to put food on the table and keep a roof over our heads. If I won a million dollars I would just concentrate on the necessities, paying off my house, college loans, getting a new car (efficient mind you, something that gets a good MPG), put some aside for my future childrens college funds, and the rest in my 401K for the future. I do wish my family had more growing up, I have 4 siblings and my father didn't make much, but I wouldn't trade it back for anything. I am who I am because of that situation and now am in a position to help my younger siblings get through college and not have nearly the debt I had when I graduated.

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You think i was born yesterday? No **** that stuff doesnt make it or break it forever. People divorce millionaires or even billionaires. No the girl was saying I was black. Gold? I didnt say anything about going to grad school..the girl that I was some hood rat. I payed my way and have student loans because of grad school btw. You know what I dont think it will ever fall out from under me. People typically in this society do not go down in social class unless something drastic happens.

 

I know im spoiled and I do get things handed to me a lot. I was spoiled when I was little and I went to high school overseas with people who were cruisin 80k cars for their first cars. Labor was cheap over there and we had personal drivers, maids, gardeners, etc. same with all my friends over there. My friends lived in HUGE houses over there and had multiple ones in the city and on the beach. Tell me your outlook and lifestyle wouldn't be changed. My friends from the US noticed I changed after I came back. You think at 27 you can just switch over and live like a hippy and change my attitude. I know I got an attitude. But im not some stuck up snob. When I go overseas to visit I give the poor workers a lot of money because i feel sorry for them. They make like 2 dollars a day. Ive given some like 60 dollars just cause I wanted too and they were nice. But like i tell my parents I cant change over night.

 

Seriously all of you were egging me on. But I dont go flaunting money around, I dont just say hey you konw what kind of car i drive yadda yadda. Ive had girls ask me what kind of car I drive and I say a 92 honda accord no lie and I leave it at that. They see it they see it I dont go out of my way.

 

The fact that you call them "poor workers" is evidence of your snobby attitude. You pat yourself on the back for your "charity" of giving them extra money? Give me a break. You don't have to be a hippie -- I most certainly am no proponent of that. But you do need to learn some humility.

 

You remind me of this lady character in the movie Cruel Intentions... she throws a fit that her daughter's dating her black cello teacher, and when he accuses her of being racist, she exuberantly shouts "We're not racist! We give money to Colin Powell!"

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I am confident and c0cky.

 

 

Confident and cocky are too different things. You sound way too cocky and materialistic. I would not want to be in a LTR, just from what I've read.

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The fact that you call them "poor workers" is evidence of your snobby attitude. You pat yourself on the back for your "charity" of giving them extra money? Give me a break. You don't have to be a hippie -- I most certainly am no proponent of that. But you do need to learn some humility.

 

You remind me of this lady character in the movie Cruel Intentions... she throws a fit that her daughter's dating her black cello teacher, and when he accuses her of being racist, she exuberantly shouts "We're not racist! We give money to Colin Powell!"

 

He could pass for all the snobby characters in that movie. Only most of them can actually speak and write.

 

Truth is... OP sounds like a wanna be thug. Talking about his chains and speaking like he does....

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