taabistan Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 I've had several female co-workers approach me on this issue. They liked Man X but the "signs" they were dropping were unnoticed. I must say, women can be rather dumb and hysterical at the same time. Bending over and giving the Man full view of your ass? Brilliant. Next time, just ask. There is a popular myth that men feel emasculated by women who initiate the courtship ritual. In fact, many of us think it's amazing. Women are more likely to receive a yes than men are too. As for the possibility of rejection? Well, best to know now that life is full of rejection.
Soul Bear Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 Women as the initiators- I wouldn't have it any other way. If they think they're worth it then that's how it goes down. If I think they're worth it then I'll reciprocate.
alphamale Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 I must say, women can be rather dumb and hysterical at the same time. you don't say?? There is a popular myth that men feel emasculated by women who initiate the courtship ritual. most relationships are initiated by women....they are also usuallly ended by women too
Soul Bear Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 most relationships are initiated by women....they are also usuallly ended by women too That's very true. But i think it's only because they know that men will chase them if they have the 'it' factor. Therefor making it essentially easier for them to pick up the next model. That's why I'm starting to think like that for myself. Then maybe things will be balanced
Author taabistan Posted October 14, 2009 Author Posted October 14, 2009 most relationships are initiated by women....they are also usuallly ended by women too Most women approach you and ask you out? I envy you. However, we're not all as lucky. One example: I was spearheading a charity and an older woman who enjoyed the talk about Afghanistan asked if I would join her for dinner. I was awe struck and accepted. I also noticed a cut in the ackwardness of previous relationships. Her assertiveness was unique and gave the date a whole new dimension. It's something women should strongly consider.
alphamale Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 Most women approach you and ask you out? no you fool, they INDIRECTLY initiate
Soul Bear Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 AlphaBro they also DIRECTLY initiate too.....trust me
alphamale Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 AlphaBro they also DIRECTLY initiate too.....trust me on occasion, sure
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