Do u think its wrong to tell your partner you think somebody else is attractive??

[AD1980]

I always notice my best friends wife talk about other guys she thinks are cute wheter it be one of his friends or if shes wathcing tv...Shell even make comments like "oh my boyfriends on tv"

 

I do not think shes cheating at all and am i by no means saying becasue youre married or in a relationship should u not notice other attractive people but is theyre really an need to announce it in front of your spouse everytime u see an attratcive guy on tv or a person whso being talked about??

 

What is the point exactly??

 

I wonder if its just a lack of filter thing or is theyre a mesage like listen i may be maried but im not dead and u better treat me right because i still notice good looking men out there

[SoulSearch_CO]

I don't think it's a big deal. It depends on the boundaries and comfort level in that particular relationship. I don't have a problem with those kinds of comments - never have. I think celeb crushes are totally harmless - what's the likelihood ANYTHING would ever happen?

[BobSacamento]

It's not smart that's for sure.

[alphamale]

I wonder if its just a lack of filter thing or is theyre a mesage like listen i may be maried but im not dead and u better treat me right because i still notice good looking men out there

her husband should reply "yea he's gorgeous, if i was gay i'd do him all night long"

[littlewhiterose]

Daaaangerous territory.

[xpaperxcutx]

her husband should reply "yea he's gorgeous, if i was gay i'd do him all night long"

:lmao:

 

 

I remember I used to talk about girls I have crushes on ( I'm a girl). And he would get jealous, except I sometimes did it just to tease him.

 

I think talking about other girls or guys is completely harmless as long as they don't actually commit infidelity. Besides with the way the media likes to exploit sex nowadays, it's completely impossible to avoid developing any kind of crush on a celebrity or a beautiful guy or girl.

[Soul Bear]

her husband should reply "yea he's gorgeous, if i was gay i'd do him all night long"

:lmao::lmao:

[AD1980]

:lmao:

 

 

I remember I used to talk about girls I have crushes on ( I'm a girl). And he would get jealous, except I sometimes did it just to tease him.

 

I think talking about other girls or guys is completely harmless as long as they don't actually commit infidelity. Besides with the way the media likes to exploit sex nowadays, it's completely impossible to avoid developing any kind of crush on a celebrity or a beautiful guy or girl.

 

But what is the point of keep saying in in front of your s/o??

 

Is he/she supposed to enjoy it or care?

[tryagaintoday]

her husband should reply "yea he's gorgeous, if i was gay i'd do him all night long"

 

Yup, that's what I always tell my ex-fiancee. She kept going on on Takashi Kenishiro so I said "Yeah, he's the man I'll turn gay for!"

[kiss_andmakeup]

It depends on the dynamic of the relationship, however, I don't think it's ever really wrong. Maybe insensitive or inappropriate.

 

For the posters that have said to make a gay joke, that's what my boyfriend does! I remarked about the hotness of Michael C. Hall when we were watching Dexter the other day, and he goes (with a lisp) "oh yeah like totally I would do him in a heartbeat!"

 

His confidence, and ability to not get jealous over something so stupid, is very sexy.

[xpaperxcutx]

But what is the point of keep saying in in front of your s/o??

 

Is he/she supposed to enjoy it or care?

 

Well we were talking about people we had crushes on, and I was being honest.

 

In all truths, my " ex" didn't enjoy it, but he forgave easily.

[SadandConfusedWA]

It would only bother me if my bf liked celebrities that are the complete opposite of what I look like. It would also bother me if my bf thought my real life friends, his co-workers etc are attractive. Otherwise, I wouldn't care.

[tryagaintoday]

It would only bother me if my bf liked celebrities that are the complete opposite of what I look like. It would also bother me if my bf thought my real life friends, his co-workers etc are attractive. Otherwise, I wouldn't care.

 

So you only keep ugly/not attractive ppl as friends and he needs to work in places that do not have attractive ppl?

[liam.judge]

It's not a big deal but you should mention it to her if it's bothering you

[Dexter Morgan]

I always notice my best friends wife talk about other guys she thinks are cute wheter it be one of his friends or if shes wathcing tv...Shell even make comments like "oh my boyfriends on tv"

 

I do not think shes cheating at all and am i by no means saying becasue youre married or in a relationship should u not notice other attractive people but is theyre really an need to announce it in front of your spouse everytime u see an attratcive guy on tv or a person whso being talked about??

 

What is the point exactly??

 

 

While I don't think it is a matter of right or wrong in telling a SO someone else is attractive.....like you said...what is the point?

 

Does someone really think they want to hear when their SO has the hots for someone else?

 

I don't think much of it myself...but if it becomes a habit, or it goes beyond the line of conveying that someone is simply attractive (i.e. "god damn he is hot!!!) then I probably won't take much stock in the relationship if she is that insensitive.

 

That and its been my experience that someone that flagrantly feels the need to openly convey how good looking someone else is in front of their SO isn't all that trustworthy.