electricvanilla Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 I guess you can say I have been dating this guy-nothing official yet- for the past few months. Im 22 he's 21. He has bought me bouquets of roses twice,cooked me dinner and I have also had dinner many times with his family. Stayed late watching movies and talking/awkward silences. He has also started exercising with me, since I am training for a race. I was the first to initiate a kiss with him bc he planned a special day for my birthday…so the next day I kissed him. Then 2 weeks later he kissed me while we were hanging out. It has been a few weeks and I don’t feel as if this is going anywhere. I figured he would ask me to be his gf by now? He seems scared to touch me…like hold hands/hug…I don’t get it? I know a lot of guys are hesitant with me bc I’m a ‘good girl’. If I try and act seductive or send flirtatious texts I basically get turned down. LoL. But I don't want to change how I am! It seems as if I am the one always initiating events with him…like the past few weeks I have been the one to invite him out to the movies/hang out. Yet he also makes future plans...but none have occured yet. && I am the one who always texts him. So I have decided to stop because I dont want to seem obsessed. So far it has been 6 days and he hasn't texted me either. He has told me more than once that he really likes me and he knows I like him as well. So I just dont understand? Is he just seeing what’s out there? And possible seeing sum1 else? Is it bc im such a goody good that he is taking his time? Or am I just being used? If that’s the case why would he waste his time and money. Any advice on this please??...while I grow sum ovaries and prepare to just ask him straight up >_<
Soul Bear Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 (edited) This ones easy. If you want anything to happen here you have to make it happen yourself, at least to start. The poor guy is just nervous as hell, and thinks whatever he does will chase you away.... It sounds like how I used to be when I was younger Show him otherwise. If i'm wrong I'll eat this whole plate of food without chewing. But incase I am wrong, maybe you should just ask him straight up?! There is no one here to perform the Heinlich manouver if i choke. Edited October 14, 2009 by Soul Bear
Author electricvanilla Posted October 14, 2009 Author Posted October 14, 2009 Thanks for the advice! I guess I can look for ways to make him more at ease when around me. I will talk to him tmr, so there is no need to choke dwn ur foodz, haha:laugh:
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